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AndreaL (original poster member #41522) posted at 12:48 AM on Sunday, July 27th, 2014
Does anyone else WS constantly watch them? My husband is always looking at me, as if I might disappear. It starting to drive me crazy.
Me:35
Hubby:38
Kids ages: 2 and 5
Married: 8 years
DDAY: Dec 1 2013
Affair: 2 months EA and PA
Status: Separted. Sigh...I wish I could forgive 😞
Update: attempting to reconcile
Skan ( member #35812) posted at 4:08 AM on Sunday, July 27th, 2014
Yeah, it can be horribly irritating, can't it! Mine did, until he felt more secure that I would not just pack up and disappear. How is it between the two of you? Are you both in a more stable place?
Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
hopefulmom44 ( member #44136) posted at 4:28 AM on Sunday, July 27th, 2014
Hi andreal-yes, to see how I reacted on the things he said.
Jls0320 ( member #41192) posted at 4:41 AM on Sunday, July 27th, 2014
We are separated in the same home right now, his choice, but yeah I catch him staring at me constantly and it's driving me nuts. What??
Me: BS 2 young kiddos
Him: EXWH, SA/NPD, Craigslist, porn, cam sites. EA/PA with disgusting co-worker troll
Too many DDays 9/13-1/15, too many chances to be a good man
Together 16 yrs, married 7yrs,
Divorced 2/11/15
I deserve to be the ONLY one
Vulcanized ( member #33523) posted at 5:21 AM on Sunday, July 27th, 2014
Mine wouldn't, but he would riffle thru my office when I was at work. Caught him reading my journal and trying to get into my phone & email. 
Is he trying to make you uncomfortable enough that you just leave?
Me: fBW/MH 40s
3.26.13: Liberation day: D'd the whiny turd after being saddled with a serial cheating, NPD, jitbag 10 years too long
Now:-----> Everything is as it should be
Cordelia ( member #43568) posted at 6:08 AM on Saturday, August 2nd, 2014
Yes, mine is always watching me, checking to see what I am thinking. Also checking what I am doing on my computer. Afraid I will find some evidence.
Me BS now BW, 55
Him WS now SH, 50
Together 18 years
No children (sadly couldn't have them)
DD April 2014, received letter from OW
a relationship the previous Dec 2013-Jan 2014, started by dating website.
TT 8/14
5/2015, DD2, discovered
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