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Jls0320 (original poster member #41192) posted at 5:42 AM on Wednesday, July 30th, 2014
My WH and I have been sort of separated for over a week now in house while he "figures out his head", which I find out today means breaking NC with his EAP and visiting her at work at 6:30 am for the past 2 days. He just needed to talk....supposedly had maintained NC since February but just this week went to see her. He is not remorseful and has done nothing for months to repair our marriage. Thank goodness I had a tracker and looked it up today since he planned to not tell me, I am so thankful for my gut that doesn't believe his never ending lies and bullshit. Meeting with lawyer tomorrow, done done done :(
Me: BS 2 young kiddos
Him: EXWH, SA/NPD, Craigslist, porn, cam sites. EA/PA with disgusting co-worker troll
Too many DDays 9/13-1/15, too many chances to be a good man
Together 16 yrs, married 7yrs,
Divorced 2/11/15
I deserve to be the ONLY one
healingroad ( member #41920) posted at 5:53 AM on Wednesday, July 30th, 2014
He can figure out his head far away from you. What bullshit. Unbelievable.
Fuck that guy. Good luck with the lawyer.
Jrazz ( member #31349) posted at 6:05 AM on Wednesday, July 30th, 2014
(((Jls0320)))
Stay strong, girl. We've got your back.
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom
FixYou71 ( member #42654) posted at 9:33 AM on Wednesday, July 30th, 2014
(((Jls0320)))
Clearly he doesn't deserve you and you don't deserve his BS.
I'm sorry. Take care of you.
BS:44
H: 50
Dday #1 Oct 2007 (Porn for 2 yrs)
Dday #2 May 2013 (Porn for 5 more yrs))
Dday#3 May 2014 (finally admitted to drunk kissing OW in 1994: the 2nd drunken kiss with another woman during our M)
DD 22 and DS 18
Married 1993
SMSA925 ( member #43955) posted at 4:23 PM on Wednesday, July 30th, 2014
{{{Jls0320}}}
He had a choice, which alot of WS dont get. He made the wrong choice. Thats on him. Good luck with the lawyer, and with your future
Me: BS; b. 1958
Him: WH b. 1952
Together since 1982, Married 20yrs at DDay#1
DDay April 17, 2014; DD#2 2/15
My ducks lined up, life is good!
Jls0320 (original poster member #41192) posted at 4:52 PM on Wednesday, July 30th, 2014
When I asked him if he thought about the choice he was making and that I would most likely find out, he said yes it was a risk he was willing to make :(. He's a manipulative, self absorbed, pathological liar. He's already trying to Hoover me, I've just pretended he doesn't exist until I can get him out. OW has nothing on me, but if he wants someone just like him, he found her! I'm so disgusted in him, sad I could have already been divorced but believed his lies earlier this year, not anymore....
Me: BS 2 young kiddos
Him: EXWH, SA/NPD, Craigslist, porn, cam sites. EA/PA with disgusting co-worker troll
Too many DDays 9/13-1/15, too many chances to be a good man
Together 16 yrs, married 7yrs,
Divorced 2/11/15
I deserve to be the ONLY one
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