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Ostrich80 ( member #34827) posted at 9:32 AM on Saturday, August 2nd, 2014
Sorry but mom didn't know best on this one Feel sorry for her crappy childhood if you want but the A..hell no. She betrayed you, she was basically part of your family. She knew he had a gf, she didn't care. Her choice, her consequences. Your mom is really asking you of too much on this one
BS..me
WS..him
Been with him over half my life
4kid
DD1 10-01-09 DD2 02-12-12 discovered it never ended
OW..nothing special. Just your average skank
Status..#$%@????
BtraydWife ( member #42581) posted at 1:44 PM on Saturday, August 2nd, 2014
Glad to read your responses. I was worried you believed your mother's opinion was justified. You aren't a doormat and it's great to hear you say you'll speak up about it. Hang in there!
hihn ( member #43986) posted at 12:21 AM on Tuesday, August 5th, 2014
Oh, wow, I couldn't imagine telling my betrayed daughter that she wasn't sympathetic enough toward the ow regardless of what position the ow had in my family. That is jacked up & more then just a little dysfunctional! The ow is lucky to be alive, that she didn't have her barely beating black heart ripped from her chest. As your Mother I would want ow out of your life all together. Seeing you suffering because of the affair would be very painful for me as your mother & my mama bear protectiveness would have kicked into high gear. I am hurt by your mothers response to your trauma.
Me BS 58yo, Him WS 55yo, sex addict
DD#1 1/28/14 co-worker#1
DD#2 2/8/14 co-worker#2 9/13 - 4/14
DD#3 4/10/14 22+ anonymous sex OW
Full disclosure 7/30/14 30+ sex parteners,but is more likley 80+
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