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stillcrying4ever (original poster member #38310) posted at 3:08 PM on Saturday, August 2nd, 2014
H came home and told me OW left message on his phone. He wanted to change his no. Did that last night. He wanted me to listen to the message. He hasnt had contact for 3 months. She can't believe that he won't talk to her anymore.
D Day May 27, 2012
Married 39 years
2 kids, 3 grand kids and 1 on the way
RomanticInnocenc ( member #43041) posted at 3:12 PM on Saturday, August 2nd, 2014
Hey stillcrying,
why is this a first? Is it because he was honest and open with you or because the OW is obviously a couple of sandwiches short of a lunch box?
Me: BS 34 WH: 32 (theseseatsRtaken)
DS1: 3 DS2: 1 DS3: 2 months
T 13 years, M 5
DD1: 8/1/2014 DD2: 10/1/2014
"Live so that when your children think of fairness and integrity, they think of you!" H. Jackson Brown
stillcrying4ever (original poster member #38310) posted at 3:17 PM on Saturday, August 2nd, 2014
It is a first because he had never told me of any contact ever. I've always found it or the other woman had found mean and horrible hurtful ways for me to know.
D Day May 27, 2012
Married 39 years
2 kids, 3 grand kids and 1 on the way
RomanticInnocenc ( member #43041) posted at 4:02 PM on Saturday, August 2nd, 2014
Then that is really great! I applaud your WH for finally getting it!
I still hold on the lunch box thing tho... what exactly doesn't the OW understand that you don't F*CK married men and then keep in contact with them!
I hope your WH continues to come to you with stuff like this! 
Me: BS 34 WH: 32 (theseseatsRtaken)
DS1: 3 DS2: 1 DS3: 2 months
T 13 years, M 5
DD1: 8/1/2014 DD2: 10/1/2014
"Live so that when your children think of fairness and integrity, they think of you!" H. Jackson Brown
Questioningall ( member #43959) posted at 6:34 PM on Saturday, August 2nd, 2014
I'd say that was a very good thing. My WH has been doing that and it shows me he's really working on R, since I know he's scared but is willing to be open anyway. I hope he keeps it up!
Me-BS 57
Him-WS 57 Sorrowfulmate
Married 30 years, 5 kids
Dday #1 12/12 He made up a ONS
Dday #2. 3/14 EAs, 3 ONS, 2 LTA
Buttercup: We'll never survive.
Westley: Nonsense. You're only saying that because no one ever has.
BtraydWife ( member #42581) posted at 10:42 PM on Saturday, August 2nd, 2014
Yeah that sounds like a fantastic first. Good job Mr stillcrying!
Jump right on that and get him a new number!
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