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BrokenDoe (original poster member #44077) posted at 5:44 AM on Friday, August 8th, 2014
9:45 pm
19 inches
9lbs 1 oz
Healthy baby Buck. 
Husband stayed in room. As did grandma and friend.
Thank you everyone for warm wishes and prayers.
BW 36
WH 36
Married 10 years less a week, together 16, friends 24
DDay July 2 2014
Children DD 7 & 4DS
Separated but living together day 5. I hate my life
RippedSoul ( member #40055) posted at 5:54 AM on Friday, August 8th, 2014
Congratulations!!! I'm so, so excited for you and Baby Doe. :)
BW: 55; SLAWH: 52; M: 28 yrs
DD#1--11/30/12 (prostitute 1)
DD#2--1/29/13 (WH confessed: P1, AP, escorts 1 & 2)
DD#3--9/13 (trolling MILF site)
DD#4--10/8/13 (EA with AP cont'd)
DD: 26; DD: 24; DS: 22; DS: 20
I've never NOT edited my posts.
Hopeful74 ( member #44003) posted at 6:07 AM on Friday, August 8th, 2014
Me: BW
2 DD: 18 & 5; 1 DS: 10
Divorced May 2015
'Everytime you get up and get back in the race, one more small piece of you starts to fall into place.' -
solus sto ( member #30989) posted at 6:54 AM on Friday, August 8th, 2014
BS-me, 62; X-irrelevant; we’re D & NC. "So much for the past and present. The future is called 'perhaps,' which is the only possible thing to call the future. And the important thing is not to let that scare you." Tennessee Williams
momentintime ( member #16394) posted at 7:08 AM on Friday, August 8th, 2014
All the best to you and yours. Enjoy this time and make decisions later. Welcome new little person to this great big world.
[This message edited by momentintime at 1:09 AM, August 8th (Friday)]
BS-me FWS - him
D-day 8/04
R'd
"Global editing disclaimer - I edit almost everything I post, and I am not going to post why every time."...re: Bionical girl
deeplysad ( member #16590) posted at 8:38 AM on Friday, August 8th, 2014
Congratulations your new wonderful baby!!!
Me: BW - I'm much too young to feel this damn old
Him: FWH - Midlife crisis with a pathetic porn wannabe
D-Day: August 2004; Lots of false R until February 2005.
Waiting4Daylite ( member #36213) posted at 9:07 AM on Friday, August 8th, 2014
Congratulations!!!!!!!
Rubix ( member #44099) posted at 10:43 AM on Friday, August 8th, 2014
BS:(28)WS:(32-RemorsefulHubby)
kids:mine:DD 8 ours:DS 2
Married: 24/04/2014. Seperated.
Dday: 13/6/14 CL ads, ONS,
10/2014 CL ads and possible EA
knutz ( member #28877) posted at 11:41 AM on Friday, August 8th, 2014
Together 23 years
Married 20 Years
BW (me) 48
FWH: 49 (rSA)
2 children, 9 & 12
DDay: December 27, 2009
"Life is not what it is supposed to be. It is what it is. The way we cope with it is what makes the difference". Virginia Satir
childofcheater ( member #33887) posted at 12:04 PM on Friday, August 8th, 2014
Me: 42 yo, him 41Married 19 years together 233 kids: DD15, DD12, DS9DDay 2/9/12 found suspicious text to coworkerStatus: in R, work in progress
devasted30 ( member #39439) posted at 12:16 PM on Friday, August 8th, 2014
That is wonderful news BrokenDoe. Sounds like a good weight etc. I hope you are doing well and that your future becomes so much brighter. Hugs to you.
And remember Murphy is right. Nothing is so bad that it can't get worse!!!
ChangeMaker ( member #43899) posted at 12:35 PM on Friday, August 8th, 2014
I must not fear. Fear is the mind-killer. I will permit it to pass over me and through me.
DDay - June 2014
DD 2008 & 2011
Divorced April 1, 2015
sinsof thefather ( member #29295) posted at 12:49 PM on Friday, August 8th, 2014
Congratulations
...second star to the right and straight on till morning.
Tigaress ( member #43954) posted at 2:18 PM on Friday, August 8th, 2014
determinata ( member #42124) posted at 2:36 PM on Friday, August 8th, 2014
CONGRATULATIONS.
Newborns are the best.
M 2007. DDay 2008
~10+ CL Prostitutes in 8 months
Divorcing SAWH "ActionsOverWords"
Me: Early 30s BW (also an adult OC) w Baby DS
6 years of TT, hidden STD & false R
Separated 5 mos+; he will not commit
Someday I will be okay
stunnedin12 ( member #38141) posted at 2:53 PM on Friday, August 8th, 2014
ME - Betrayed Spouse
Him - Wayward spouse
Lawyers involved.
sudra ( member #30143) posted at 3:13 PM on Friday, August 8th, 2014
Congratulations. Enjoy this child!
Me (BW) (5\64), Him(SAWH) (68)Married 31 years, 1 son (28), 1 stepdaughter (36) DDay #1 January 2004DDay #2 7-27-2010 7 month EA/PA (became "engaged" to OW before he told me he wanted a divorce)Working on R
RawDeal75 ( member #42495) posted at 3:25 PM on Friday, August 8th, 2014
Wow! Fantastic! Congratulations! I am so happy for you and your newborn. :-)
Me: BH, 39. Her: WW, 39. Two kids: 3&5
Together 21 yrs. Married 13 yrs.
D-day #2 Jan 18, 2014: 12 month EA/PA (AP#3)+ admission of 5 month EA/PA in 1994 (AP#1).
D-day #1 May 2001: 2 month EA/PA (AP#2)
OK now ( member #14459) posted at 3:39 PM on Friday, August 8th, 2014
Well done!
Glad your son is healthy and you did let WH stay in the room. I hope he acknowledges and appreciates the privilege you accorded him.
Numb2014 ( member #43919) posted at 3:44 PM on Friday, August 8th, 2014
I can tell you what I did. I found out about ex first affair 3 days before I was due to give birth. I let him in, only because I didn't want what he did to us to affect any future relationship with dd. I felt that if I did not let him in the room, and we decided to R, that I would regret he missed that moment. OR if we decided not to R and he didn't bond with dd, I would have felt guilty. Not saying that is the case at all, just my thought process during it all. He was there when she was born. He bonded with her. And even though we didn't R until she was 1 1/2, I had not regrets letting him be int eh room. My ex would have held a life long grudge though....
I don't know your story, but just wanted to share how I processed it all...
BW-me (31)
WXH-him (30)
DD-4, DS-14
High school sweethearts. 14 years gone. He doesn't even care. It meant nothing to him.
False R-3/2011 to 6/2014
Found evidence going back 2 years. He's moving in with OW.
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