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Melody3 (original poster member #33591) posted at 6:02 PM on Friday, August 22nd, 2014
FirstLoveGone I agree. This summer was a test. They met. They (my children) like the boyfriend. He is fun to be around without his daughter. Add daughter to the mix and it gets complicated. So now I know. I didn't know before.
I think a lot is clouding my judgment.
I usually go with my gut but other's emotions and feelings can tend to overwhelm my own.
My counselor says "don't use the word confused anymore." True.....
Melody3 (original poster member #33591) posted at 6:04 PM on Friday, August 22nd, 2014
Does anyone have advice on the healing process?
Any books to read. It's time to heal.
I thought I had healed since it had been so long since ex left but obviously the mark of finalizing the divorce chngd something inside me and solidified we were done. I don't believe he or I had felt that before. And of course him moving the OW to our homestate/hometown. It's time for me to work hard on this. He's not (ex) obviously. The OW just masks his issues and insecurities........
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