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 EEJJ (original poster member #44731) posted at 9:16 PM on Tuesday, September 2nd, 2014

Question, is there a place where we can see what all the initials stand for. Bs wh foo etc... thanks

BH...ME WW 38
Beautiful DD and great DS!!
dday 8.7.14
Status: Divorced 3.6.15
"God gives his toughest tests to his strongest soldiers"
"Sometimes you don't need to hear their excuses because their actions already spoke truth&

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trustedg ( member #44465) posted at 9:18 PM on Tuesday, September 2nd, 2014

Go to Healing Library (upper left), Abbreviations at the top. I have to refer to it all the time.

Me BWHim WH DDay 12/2012Married a long time, in R

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Fire96 ( member #34131) posted at 9:18 PM on Tuesday, September 2nd, 2014

Upper left yellow box, called the Library.

http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/library.asp

Fire

Me, BS-57
WW-52
DD, 1/9/2011
Filed for divorce 6/14
Divorce final 7/2015
Free at last, Free at last, Thank God Almighty I'm free at last!

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yearsofpain25 ( member #42012) posted at 9:20 PM on Tuesday, September 2nd, 2014

Hi EEJJ, don't know what your situation is, but if your're new here... Here's my stash of links. Don't feel you have to read them all, but many of them are very helpful:

You can find most of the abbreviations here in the upper left corner in the Healing Library. Please check that section out.

http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/library.asp

Read up on the 180 so that you can decide if you want to use it later. It is designed for you to detach and can be found under BS FAQ here:

http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/faq_bs.asp#FAQ11

And more 180 info under the target thread here:

http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=232785

I would also recommend reading these target threads in the Just Found Out forum:

Tactical Primer

http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=235051

Great Posts for Newbies to Read

http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=361740

Boundaries and Consequences 101 for all new BS

http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=385631

Before You Say Reconcile...

http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=406548

For the foggy, unremorseful, cake eaters:

20/20 Hindsight: What I should have done when I J F O

http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=446349

These will help with any sort of upcoming confrontation that you may have with your WS:

http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/healing_library/confrontation/no_contact.asp

http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/healing_library/confrontation/boundaries.asp

Hoover:

http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=480828

Safety thread when leaving:

http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=474587

How much does my BS hurt? ...

http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=327446

Things that every WS needs to know

http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=324250

Affair Confessions - Everything to learn in 1 Post

http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=474387

Recovery Plan:

http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=539961

Enjoy.

"I remind myself of this. I am a survivor. I have taken all this world has dished out and am still here. So there is no reason to be afraid. Whatever happens, I will survive. So now onto living. It is time for me to thrive." - DrJekyll

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yearsofpain25 ( member #42012) posted at 9:23 PM on Tuesday, September 2nd, 2014

I should also mention that depending if you are a WS or BS, you need to read the guidelines for each forum BEFORE posting. I would hate to get you into trouble as some of these are in the WS forum and some are in the JFO forum.

Please be careful when posting.

Thanks,

yop

"I remind myself of this. I am a survivor. I have taken all this world has dished out and am still here. So there is no reason to be afraid. Whatever happens, I will survive. So now onto living. It is time for me to thrive." - DrJekyll

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 EEJJ (original poster member #44731) posted at 12:21 AM on Wednesday, September 3rd, 2014

Thank you

BH...ME WW 38
Beautiful DD and great DS!!
dday 8.7.14
Status: Divorced 3.6.15
"God gives his toughest tests to his strongest soldiers"
"Sometimes you don't need to hear their excuses because their actions already spoke truth&

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