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tired girl ( member #28053) posted at 4:08 PM on Wednesday, September 10th, 2014
T/j,
Not sure what you found about my question as not easy family first, but I am sure she is a big girl and can fend for herself.
Me 47 Him 47 Hardlessons
DS 27,25,23
D Day's becoming less important as time moves on.
"No one can make you feel inferior without your consent." Eleanor Roosevelt
My bad for trying to locate remorse on your morality map. OITNB
familyfirst ( member #42651) posted at 4:32 PM on Wednesday, September 10th, 2014
TG, you're right, of course she can. I happen to think there is value in supporting someone when you see they are low vs constantly challenging them.
StartingFreshNow (original poster member #44224) posted at 4:45 PM on Wednesday, September 10th, 2014
I'm sorry, I was working through things with my BH and haven't had much time to be on here lately.
Did your BH discover your continued contact with your AP?
Yes
What happened that you are certain he is done?
He was house-hunting and told me he was done. However, since then we've been working on things and we're giving it one more shot.
What gives?
I don't want this to sound rude but I have done a lot of introspection the last few days. I have seen my counselor as well. I don't have the time to recap it all though.
I'm definitely out of the fog. I don't need to prove to you guys that I am, I just need to prove that to my husband so that's been my focus. I am just hoping that I can continue to get support here when I need it.
Me: WW
2 young kids
DDay - Dec 2013 (EA), TT
DDay 2 - Jul 28, 2014 (PA), TT
DDay 3 - end of Aug/beg of Sep 2014
(All the same A)
20WrongsVs1 ( member #39000) posted at 6:14 PM on Wednesday, September 10th, 2014
Everyone is here to offer support. Sometimes that means being asked uncomfortable questions, or having our motives or even veracity scrutinized. 
This sounds like a positive update! Perhaps not too late after all?
fWW: 42
BH: 52
DDay: April 21, 2013
Sweet DS & fierce DD, under 10
Former motto: "Fake it till ya make it." Now: "You can't win if you don't play."
StartingFreshNow (original poster member #44224) posted at 6:29 PM on Wednesday, September 10th, 2014
Perhaps not, and I know I won't screw things up this time the way I have in the past, this time is so different it's unbelievable.
Me: WW
2 young kids
DDay - Dec 2013 (EA), TT
DDay 2 - Jul 28, 2014 (PA), TT
DDay 3 - end of Aug/beg of Sep 2014
(All the same A)
familyfirst ( member #42651) posted at 8:58 PM on Wednesday, September 10th, 2014
Very happy to see this good update. Good example on never giving up. I hope the positive momentum continues!
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