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Found out 11/09

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clarity5544 ( member #49820) posted at 9:26 AM on Sunday, October 8th, 2017

It sounds like you are doing great! It’s so wonderful to hear an update, as often we don’t get that. I’m sure your final decision to split and divorce was not easy, but I’m glad you found peace with it. Although I believe cheating is wrong and the people who do it are broken, I do think that sometimes it can be a part of a dysfunctional relationship that’s not worth saving. It’s good you were able to see that and move on. I wish you peace and happiness in your newfound relationship.

Me -34 BF
Him - 34 WF

Together since: 5/2010
D-day: 8/2015
Major trickle truth: 1/9/16-1/11/16

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whiterabbit46 ( new member #41392) posted at 2:40 PM on Monday, October 9th, 2017

BS Only

[This message edited by SI Staff at 10:04 PM, November 5th (Sunday)]

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goalong ( member #57352) posted at 3:49 PM on Monday, October 9th, 2017

Hope you are doing much better mentally. Are you still on medication? If not try to wean from it and stand on your own. Excersice helps a lot. Hope your new realtionship is also helping you

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Wool94 ( member #53300) posted at 3:52 PM on Monday, October 9th, 2017

Such great news.

D-Day #1: April 7, 2016
D-Day #2: May 21, 2016
D-Day #3: June 7, 2016
Me: 1975
Her:WW (amn8r) 1981
Son 2006
Daughter 2009
"God not only loves you, but He actually likes you. "-Stephen Hooks

"My faith is mine now."

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5454real ( member #37455) posted at 4:57 PM on Monday, October 9th, 2017

I am glad you are out of infidelity.

I am extremely curious as to how you explain this relationship to the children though. That has to be a little confusing for them. Are they in IC?

BH 58, WW 49
DS 31(Mine),SD 29,SS 28(Hers),DS 16 Ours, DGS 11, DGD 8, DGS 3
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 13yrs
"I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone."
― Sophocle

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