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squid (original poster member #57624) posted at 12:15 AM on Saturday, July 29th, 2017
Tonight is the 1st night ww is spending at her temporary place.
BH
D-Day 2.19.17
Divorced 12.10.18
This isn’t what any of us signed up for. But it is the hand that we have been dealt. Thus, we must play it.
sorrowfulmate ( member #43441) posted at 3:11 AM on Saturday, July 29th, 2017
Hey Squid,
Sorry you are here. I would like you to take a look at what you posted. You posted "Temporary."
You have been dealing with this shit storm, and your WW isn't remorseful. So why are you calling her apartment temporary? I know that hope springs eternal, but please realize that you can't reconcile by yourself. You have to have a wayward who is willing to do the work for themselves and not blaming the BS.
Its your WWs permanent place until she pulls her head out of her ass, and even then it might still be her temporary place because of all the damage she has done to you and your family.
Quit doing the work for her, and in the process get yourself the help you need to get stronger. Be the parent that your kids need, not a parent to your wife. She needs to grow up and take responsibility for her actions and she will only do that if you allow her to do that.
Me-WS 52 Her-BS 51 Questioningall
5 kids DDay 12/13 (lied ONS)
Dday 3/3/14 - multiple EA, PA
TT ended in October when I had polygraph
"Good night, Sorrowful. Good work. Sleep well. I can always divorce you in the morning." Dread BS Roberts
squid (original poster member #57624) posted at 10:08 AM on Saturday, July 29th, 2017
Sorrowfulmate,
I say temporary because the apartment was offered to her by a couple, practically rent-free. The lease on the apartment ends in mid September. So she'll have to find herself another place to stay after that.
BH
D-Day 2.19.17
Divorced 12.10.18
This isn’t what any of us signed up for. But it is the hand that we have been dealt. Thus, we must play it.
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