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SeeksTruth ( member #51035) posted at 7:43 PM on Tuesday, November 7th, 2017
Whatever 2 consenting single adults (over the age of 18) do is none of anyone business IMO...People barter for sex all the time. Men barter with currency (not all, but some), women with affirmation (not all, but some).
Except, of course, one can never tell if the woman is consenting. Far too many are forced into it.
Me (BW) - 34
WH - 36
D-day 2-27-15 -
D-day #2 9-24-16
“Cheating and lying aren't struggles, they're reasons to break up.”
“When your lover is a liar, you and he have a lot in common, you're both lying to you."
Randy1133 ( member #54958) posted at 7:47 PM on Tuesday, November 7th, 2017
Except, of course, one can never tell if the woman is consenting. Far too many are forced into it.
More reason to legalize it and regulate the shit out of it.
Dday: May/Aug 2016
Divorced
'Even in a toothache there is enjoyment'- Dostoyevsky
HellFire ( member #59305) posted at 7:55 PM on Tuesday, November 7th, 2017
Randy, was your revenge sex with an escort? Or some random girl at a bar?
But you are what you did
And I'll forget you, but I'll never forgive
The smallest man who ever lived..
SeeksTruth ( member #51035) posted at 8:05 PM on Tuesday, November 7th, 2017
More reason to legalize it and regulate the shit out of it.
Legalized prostitution has very little impact on human sex trafficking. Amsterdam is one case study, but human sex trafficking is still a huge problem.
Me (BW) - 34
WH - 36
D-day 2-27-15 -
D-day #2 9-24-16
“Cheating and lying aren't struggles, they're reasons to break up.”
“When your lover is a liar, you and he have a lot in common, you're both lying to you."
Randy1133 ( member #54958) posted at 8:09 PM on Tuesday, November 7th, 2017
Well, it wasn't full sex, but yes it was with an escort. It was simply a matter of convenience. I wasn't really in a good state of mind to hit the bars prowling for easy sex, so I went for the quickest, easiest route for my revenge. Funny thing about remorseless waywards, you can't really get revenge that way. Oh well...
Dday: May/Aug 2016
Divorced
'Even in a toothache there is enjoyment'- Dostoyevsky
NaiveandDecieved (original poster member #51105) posted at 8:31 PM on Tuesday, November 7th, 2017
Thanks for your comments..i form feel better but I do have a clearer understanding of how this all works or plays out in a man's mind. Quite different than a woman...
Me:BS 31
Him WS: 35
D-day: Aug 7 (my birthday)
PA: 2 years 6/2013 to 8/2015
PA #2: off and on 8-9 months 10/2014 -7/2015
EA: 2 months 6/2015-8/2015
Just trying to survive
ISurvived7734 ( member #60205) posted at 8:54 PM on Tuesday, November 7th, 2017
If my wife left me or died or whatever, I would never enter in to a serious/committed relationship with a woman again. I don't want to father or raise any more children, and I don't want anyone to ever tell me how to act or what to say ever again. That said, I would gladly pay for sex instead of trying to find a FWB or whatever. Setting a date with a hooker when I want sex seems to be the simplest, most straight-forward approach.
As has been pointed out, you don't pay a prostitute for sex; you pay her to go away. I can't think of a better way to guarantee NSA sex.
"I always look both ways when crossing a one-way street. That's how much faith I have in humanity..."
NaiveandDecieved (original poster member #51105) posted at 10:02 PM on Tuesday, November 7th, 2017
What does bas mean? Well what bout his encounter trying to get a 22 yr old to sleeps ith him in exchange for moneu...which she agreed...what is that about? He said he wanted her to do that (this arrangement ) only with her. I know why he said it , it's because he thought he was his AP only while he has her mainly but 1 or 2 girls on side at times. When I exposed her having 2 other men besides her finance and he was the only fool.to buy her gifts and pay car note I know that hurt is ego. So he asks this 21 year old to only have this arrangement with him. That's to du funny you are engaging in a deceptive act and u ask the person u r doing it with to be honest to you lol.
Me:BS 31
Him WS: 35
D-day: Aug 7 (my birthday)
PA: 2 years 6/2013 to 8/2015
PA #2: off and on 8-9 months 10/2014 -7/2015
EA: 2 months 6/2015-8/2015
Just trying to survive
Notthevictem ( member #44389) posted at 10:11 PM on Tuesday, November 7th, 2017
understanding of how this all works or plays out in a man's mind
Not all dudes think like that
BH
DDAY Mar 2014
Widowed 2022 - breast cancer
Hardroadout ( member #56340) posted at 10:12 PM on Tuesday, November 7th, 2017
I edit a lot because I am a terrible typist.
h0peless ( member #36697) posted at 4:36 AM on Wednesday, November 8th, 2017
I can't get laid to save my life (I'm sort of ugly and really weird, super shy, etc.), but I have way too much pride to pay for it.
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