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First, you need to find out if your state allows for parental alienation claims, not all states do.

Second, please take this serious. Not because I think they have a case but because you might. What she has done is attempt to alienate you, she is harming your child and I'd lawyer up.

Do you use a family calendar like Family Wizard? I'd start immediately, force them to document their visitaion woes that the court will be able to see, should it ever go there. They will know you take her threats very seriously.

I would step in to protect your minor child here. I mean the child has asked to go to therapy over this.The GF needs a wake-up call. I'd contact my attorney and find out my options. If nothing else a strongly worded don't talk like that to the child letter may be enough to scare her straight. She sounds nuts.

DS is just back from another weekend with them. They took him to a "therapist". No notice to me - DS was blindsided by it.

I've just looked her up online. She's a consultant with the courts and specializes in high conflict divorce and parenting alienation. FUCK!! I'm livid!!

^ ^ un-f#cking-believable!

How does your son feel about this??

What the heck?

He's completely stressed. I don't think he even knows what to do or not to do.

He broke down tonight and told me he is so afraid of losing his dad because of his psycho girlfriend and is just as afraid of what they are doing that will likely hurt me.

How can a parent act this way? I don't get it!

((Hugs)) to you and DS.

I’m wondering if there is trouble in paradise and the gf needs a common enemy (you & DS) to unite her and your XH.

Start documenting every visitstion your XH missed. Week days and overnights. Your XH can’t claim alienation if he caused it himself.

If it makes you feel better, there is a well known psychologist that says that 1/4 of the parental alienation cases he sees are false and are brought by narcissistic parents who believe since they are SO wonderful, the reason they aren’t bonding must be because of alienation. In those cases, the child WANTS a relationship with the parent (like your son does). Hopefully this consultant saw through the gf.

I’m wondering if there is trouble in paradise and the gf needs a common enemy (you & DS) to unite her and your XH.

Start documenting every visitstion your XH missed. Week days and overnights. Your XH can’t claim alienation if he caused it himself.

If it makes you feel better, there is a well known psychologist that says that 1/4 of the parental alienation cases he sees are false and are brought by narcissistic parents who believe since they are SO wonderful, the reason they aren’t bonding must be because of alienation. In those cases, the child WANTS a relationship with the parent (like your son does). Hopefully this consultant saw through the gf.

I think this is likely very true. She seems to be very insecure and has aimed her need for drama at DS and I.

I've been documenting for years. I always wondered if I would ever need it - especially with the boys so much older now. Looks like I might afterall!