I am tall, beautiful, artistically talented, free-thinking and open-minded, analytical, intellectual, high-expectations and standards, and frugal, compassionate, kind, loving, careful, a good cook, creative with a sewing machine, a so-so housekeeper but good home-maker, passionate, generous, charitable, spiritual, adventurous, nature-loving, animal loving, honest, peaceful, a bit aloof at times, a little introverted, loyal with a few slip ups in my life, a tepid friend (my biggest regret), a good mother, a loving grandmother, a faithful and loving and generous wife, supportive, can be challenging, love to leave people better than when I met them, deep-thinker to a fault sometimes, dreamer, enduring, fair minded, mostly liberal, my only addiction or bad vice is chocolate (not a smoker or drinker or druggie, even though I lived through the psychedelic years as a teen),and if you hadn't already figured it out, an ex-breeder who fell in love with a woman several years after ending a stale 23 year marriage to my daughter's dad. Oh, and I am completely and utterly modest: I have had to learn to say thank you for compliments.
She is my wife's ex-girlfriend, and what I know of her is that she is petite, was a flirty game-player, poor money handler (2 bankruptcies and a foreclosure), an undisciplined (indulgent) mother of two sons who later got in trouble with the law, a weak and unsupportive partner, immature, a party girl who was into meth and dancing with everyone else to make my wife jealous (a button-pusher), a frivolous spender, liar, an avowed animal lover who abandoned one of my wife's pets and gave her dog away after kicking my wife out of the house after she lost a job, then slept around with many of my wife's friends, eventually hooked up with a woman who blew through an inheritance on drugs and was physically violent, and has always felt that my wife, her ex, should have been the one in her life. I personally experienced her bitchiness, meanness, rudeness, and deceit aimed at me and my wife shortly after I met my wife. She is an anxious woman with a legacy of bad relationships, grifting, indulgence beyond her means, envy, and now lives with her elderly mother because she doesn't have the spine or the means left to have her own place. She was a cheater and an OW several times in her life. She is a user.
And I almost have all the dust of her
shaken off of my sandals . . . . 
