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Should I tell my children of my wife's affair

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ISurvived7734 ( member #60205) posted at 6:58 PM on Saturday, June 30th, 2018

Will she be meeting her lover while on vacation without you? Before you say no, how do you know?

One of the most important things I've learned in my life is to never, ever take the advice of a 20-something year old person. They think they are experts in everything and they don't know shit. Don't turn over such an important decision to a relative child. Man up and do what you think is best.

Why you think that "saving" their vacation by withholding the truth is very telling about your state of mind. You are terrified of losing your wife and family and are willing to do just about anything to keep things together. I expect you will accept that your wife is cheating on you and just try to sweep the whole thing under the rug. I say all this because time after time you put her wants/needs over your own at a time when she should be on her hands and knees begging for another chance.



"I always look both ways when crossing a one-way street. That's how much faith I have in humanity..."

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Marz ( member #60895) posted at 7:02 PM on Saturday, June 30th, 2018

Am I the only one who thinks the other man will also be going on this vacation?

Nope, don't be surprised if she doesn't introduce him as a "friend" to your kids.

All the while you've been helping hide their affair. Won't get you much

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Western ( member #46653) posted at 2:08 AM on Sunday, July 1st, 2018

Juan hasn't been back in over a month. Either he capitulated or things blew up. Always tell the kids because when you are a victim of infidelity, your wayward deserves no respect. Period and if they continue on with their behavior, destroy them

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