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What happened after your spouse filed for D?

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godheals ( member #56786) posted at 6:48 PM on Thursday, August 9th, 2018

Sorry Mods I did not know that was a rule. Won’t happen again

H: BS
ME: WW
Dday December 2015 (PA for 15 months)
Confessed to H about the A
4 kids together-M 14 Years now.
Happily R.

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foreverlabeled ( member #52070) posted at 7:32 PM on Friday, August 10th, 2018

Poppy, you are missing the point of the shock and awe method that is suggested sometimes for good reasons. It is solid advice when you have a remorseless WS. Often times that is exactly what you see with a JFO poster.

I get the resentment you must feel for someone who has tried or suggested taking your children away from you. But at the end of the day it wasn't like he was so out of his rights to ask for something you are both equally entitled to.

You seem so angry in all things. It sounds like whatever is going on with you is effecting your life in many negative ways, it's worth taking a closer look and figuring out how you are going to resolve the issue.

We followed through with D. It was mostly a shock though, not much awe to it. Just over a year after D, we are doing the R thing again.

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godheals ( member #56786) posted at 10:57 PM on Friday, August 10th, 2018

Why did he drop everything?

H: BS
ME: WW
Dday December 2015 (PA for 15 months)
Confessed to H about the A
4 kids together-M 14 Years now.
Happily R.

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