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Would you forgive a couple kisses?

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Dismayed2012 ( member #49151) posted at 5:49 PM on Tuesday, January 15th, 2019

Stop drinking; problem solved. Next time one of you might wake up in someone else's bed. Sorry about your situation.

Infidelity sucks. Freedom rocks.

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rambler ( member #43747) posted at 2:04 AM on Thursday, January 17th, 2019

I actually worry more about the strip poker thing.

So you are now naked with this couple what happened next. It is not uncommon for strip poker game to continue with the nude players betting something other than close.

What happened after the game. What was the interaction with you and this couple after the game.

Don't you think your husband's behavior is in some part driven by this by the game. Don't you think your husband thinks there was more.

making it through

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 Dontworrybehappy (original poster member #69262) posted at 6:44 PM on Monday, January 21st, 2019

What pissed me off too is his comment if I did like talking with her we had good conversations. But I didn’t like her in that way. She was a friend and I knew she would do it. But I never have been attracted to her......

So if you are not attracted to someone why risk it all? I guess they don’t think Of the risk. I don’t know. I am so lost on what this is? I don’t think he loved her. Maybe it was attention.

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twisted ( member #8873) posted at 9:43 PM on Monday, January 21st, 2019

I have to agree with rambler, how did the strip poker game ....end? Is there more to this story?

"Hey, does this rag smell like chloroform to you?

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SimplyRed ( member #50332) posted at 9:53 PM on Monday, January 21st, 2019

Sleep with dogs, wake up with fleas. You both have problems with boundaries. If you both had decided no boundaries was OK and was a decision you made together to not be mutually exclusive and openly spend time with others with the same agreement then I would say forgive, forget and get over yourself. But I think you both have poor boundaries and even poorer choices in friends. If you are serious about your relationship then work on your boundaries and dump the friends. Find new ones that support the sanctity of marriage.

Me~BW
Him-WH
Those that have nothing to hide, hide nothing.

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ramius ( member #44750) posted at 9:59 PM on Monday, January 21st, 2019

Yo both need a different group of friends.

Some IC and MC as well.

This^^^^^^^^^

How many scars have you rationalized because you loved the person who was holding the knife?

Their actions reveal their intentions. Their words conceal them.

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