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QVee ( member #34670) posted at 7:48 PM on Sunday, February 10th, 2019
I cut them out of my life. A mutual couple that we were friends with knew for 5 months and said nothing. Not my friends anymore.
"Plan for the worst, hope for the best"
firenze ( member #66522) posted at 7:53 PM on Sunday, February 10th, 2019
I consider myself fortunate that this wasn't part of my ordeal. My exWW kept her affair secret from every single person we had in common. Family, friends, everyone. All of our mutual friends were very supportive of me following DDay and just about all of them cut her out. Not one of them was stupid enough to try and invalidate how I felt about it or tell me that I needed to forgive her. If they had, I'd have gone NC with them on the spot. Had any of my friends known that she was cheating and not told me, there probably would have been violence followed by NC.
In short, anyone who isn't supportive must go.
Me: BH, 27 on DDay
Her: WW, 29 on DDay
DDay: Nov 2015
Divorced.
Unbroken78 ( member #68860) posted at 9:33 PM on Sunday, February 10th, 2019
Lies of omission are still lies.
I have no place in my life for liars.
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