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MamaDragon ( member #63791) posted at 2:37 PM on Tuesday, March 19th, 2019
so basically she promises them pics and "maybe" some fun times in the future to get them to purchase things for her? Did your WH send her gifts too?
What is your WHs plan for helping you overcome this? How are you doing with all this?
BS - 40 something at A time, over 50 now
WS - him, younger than me
Reconciled
Kathy1977 (original poster new member #69949) posted at 3:31 PM on Tuesday, March 19th, 2019
He did buy her things. I went through his business account and found purchases to sex shops also large money withdrawals that he has no way to account for . I also found receipts for groceries. He never buys groceries for our home I take care of all that.
MamaDragon ( member #63791) posted at 4:30 PM on Tuesday, March 19th, 2019
If my WH had bought gifts I'd be livid, and I'm materialistic enough to say I'd demand better, more expensive shiny things. If I was in a state that allowed it, I'd sue the OW.
He would also start doing the grocery shopping - either with me or alone since he has proven he can do domestic things.
All that money he spent on her was out of the business account? is that one you both have access too? All that money would be added up and that is what he would owe me for keeping his household together while he played around...and he would pay it to me. Then I'd take a nice vacation where I would be pampered. I *might* allow him to go too, ya know so someone can carry my bags and fan me while I sit on the beach.
I'm a bit vindictive though. 
BS - 40 something at A time, over 50 now
WS - him, younger than me
Reconciled
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