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Gumdropped (original poster member #40798) posted at 6:09 PM on Wednesday, June 5th, 2019
Had an IC appointment this week and finally opened up about my concerns about my WH possibly being a Narcissist. She has seen us in MC together and agreed immediately. She was waiting for me to bring it up as she wanted me to be the one to approach it. Turns out that his daughter is by the IC standards 80% Narc personality as well. So there I have it, not losing my mind about WH or his daughter. Decisions to be made folks, I am going to get some counselling with her about my issues as it will help me deal with what is coming. Narcissists are bottomless pits as far as neediness in all aspects is concerned. The writing is on the wall............
Me: 63 Him 67 finally kicked him out Dec 2021
Gumdropped (original poster member #40798) posted at 3:53 PM on Friday, June 21st, 2019
Grandiose
Entitled
Manipulative
Angry/Rage
Paranoid
Hypersensitive
Jealous
Lack of Guilt/Lack of Insight
Needs constant Admiration and Validation
Lying (Infidelity.....)
Everything is a Show
Projection
Greedy
Emotionally Cold
Gaslighting
Cheap
Never takes Responsibility
Vain
Controlling
Unpredictable
Takes advantage of you/others regularly
Revels in others Misery
Doesn't like to be alone
Poor Boundaries (Infidelity.....)
Infidelity
Doesn't listen
Fragile
Careless
Seductive
According to the book "Should I Stay or Should I Leave" if your partner is showing 15 or more of these traits you are likely dealing with a Narcissist.
Me: 63 Him 67 finally kicked him out Dec 2021
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