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TheGuy123 ( member #59235) posted at 1:55 AM on Thursday, May 9th, 2019
It's been ten years! No longer in contact with WW! Found someone new!
Are you sure you are moving on?
Seriously....thank you for updating. Time does heal all wounds! I went through this shyt 9 years ago.
Once both spouses just stop caring...anything can happen and usually does.
annb ( member #22386) posted at 7:54 PM on Friday, May 10th, 2019
Hi, TheBod! Good to see your yearly updates.
Congratulations on your engagement, and Goodspeed!
TheBod (original poster member #24073) posted at 4:37 AM on Saturday, May 11th, 2019
annb I think I remember you!
nice to hear from you and hope you're well 
Ponus18 ( member #57090) posted at 12:30 AM on Sunday, May 12th, 2019
Congrats TheBod! It's so nice to come here and see a victory-lap post like yours. Well-deserved and a great lesson to others who come here to see that life on the other side can be pretty darn good. My life too is 10 million times better having divorced my serial cheating WW (and gotten remarried last year) and I've never looked back.
Enjoy your new life!
Married a serial cheater.
Found out 18 years in.
Happily remarried.
StupidJulie ( new member #44495) posted at 7:40 AM on Tuesday, May 14th, 2019
So, it's been ten years for me too. I actually attended a "Meet Up" in New Jersey in 2010. This site saved me from .... possibly death? I had no where to turn. For a year I posted daily. I am now remarried (will be 4 years in September). Life does go on. I have proven to myself that the opposite of "Love" is not "Hate" but "Indifference" and I am so there....
You will not find my old name...somehow I messed up and had to start over but SI does get some of my money some of the time
"Love is weird, it's not the real world" (My son at age 8
ISurvived7734 ( member #60205) posted at 5:48 AM on Wednesday, May 15th, 2019
I'm happy that you have recovered so well and found peace with it all. What I don't understand is why you would want to get married again? I suppose you might still be young enough to want more children - which is the only reason to ever get married - but 10 years is a long time so maybe you could enlighten me on this.
Again - congratulations on your recovery and I wish you all the best going forward.
"I always look both ways when crossing a one-way street. That's how much faith I have in humanity..."
TheBod (original poster member #24073) posted at 12:25 AM on Thursday, May 16th, 2019
Isurvived:
I think the answer to your question is simple: it's because I've finally found the right person.
The 10 years I spent healing I learned a lot about myself and what works and doesn't work for me. I've realized I've spent a lot of my adult life trying to make something that doesn't work actually work---it's much easier when one finds someone who doesn't make them feel like doing anything other than just being themselves.
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