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So I’ve done it, I’ve said I am done. After an evening of ‘reminders’ about why he would stay and how much he loves his AP I decided to just give up. At least this way it’s no more living on hope. His AP thinks we have been properly separated during the last 6 months, should I tell her he’s been living at home and we weren’t separated until now? Should I blow it up or just let it be?

I'd wait. Then, if it looks like he's moving in with her... I'd choose that moment to submarine his ass.

This just makes me so sad. You deserve so much better than this. If he feels guilt free and ready to be with his piece of trash now, then let those two losers go for it. People see through this crap. Nobody will believe, "He wanted his wife SO badly but she refused. So now he gets to be happy with AP!" They will think, "What a dirty dog! Moonpenny is so lucky to be away from his nasty disrespect!" You are clearly the winner here! You stand head and shoulders above these two with your intellect and maturity.

When you get a little distance, you will be so happy to be away from these two. This is just nonsense. The way he is treating you is all dumb shit narcissism and nothing to do with AP is fabulous. He can't do the work for anyone; he's a victim, a diva. "Poor me! This is not fair to me!" Blah, blah, blah. He is so me, me, me. Just let him go. You will find much better.