She is most likely vassilating between feeling absolutely nothing to feeling so much she just wished she could feel nothing for just a little while.
Its not that you chose another woman for a while, your choices/decisions change the history of her life. Everything, including things that happened before the betrayal are in question. Was it all bull.
Six months is nothing, it may as well have happened yesterday.
She says she hates you? She does. If you want to stay your response should be along the lines of i know you do. I'm sorry.
She wishes you were dead? She does. I remember thinking while it would devastate my kids, at the time I felt it would have been easier if he had died. Your response? I know/imagine you do. I'm so sorry i hurt you. Betrayed us/you.
She hates your family? Well..they made you and you at the moment have destroyed her past current future (as she thought it would be) again...I'm so sorry.
Although that will probably make her upset too.
[This message edited by Twinkies at 5:39 PM, September 6th (Friday)]