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 Ifeelalone (original poster member #53063) posted at 3:34 AM on Tuesday, December 17th, 2019

Add me to the separated/divorcing club. Send lots of support and prayers my way.

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skeetermooch ( member #72169) posted at 3:42 AM on Tuesday, December 17th, 2019

Sending support - it's a great group of people here - very wise and compassionate. You're not alone.

Me: BS 56 on DDay 1 - 7/2019 DIVORCED - 1/2021

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Chili ( member #35503) posted at 3:53 AM on Tuesday, December 17th, 2019

Oh boy - Ifeelalone - sorry that the path has brought you here, but know there is sometimes great peace finding your way out of a toxic situation. There's lots of cool kids over here in this forum - please reach out and share your story as you need!

2012 pretty much sucked.
Things no longer suck.
Took off flying solo with the co-pilot chili dog.
"Life teaches you how to live it if you live long enough" - Tony Bennett

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UneedToSmile ( member #72111) posted at 4:00 AM on Tuesday, December 17th, 2019

Tons of prayers coming your way, IFeel.....it’s a terrible feeling, after awhile you get kind of used to it huh? Sucks for it to be your new normal. Anyway, I will be thinking of you....hoping you’ll gain the strength to leave this behind you!

Me: BS 42 years old
Him: Lying cheating narcissistic prick 43 years old
Married for 18 yrs, together for 20 total
Dday: August 19 2019
Divorced: June 12 2020

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nothisfriend ( member #53171) posted at 1:57 PM on Tuesday, December 17th, 2019

Welcome

I feel this forum is forward-looking because much of what we are doing here is active steps to make our lives better. Propping each other up is the norm and lots of cheerleading. I hope you find it that way also.

Me: BS 50 (at the time) Him: WH 53 (at the time) D-Day: 10/25/15 Married: 28 years. One son, age 18 (at the time)
D final 2016 REMARRIED to a marvelous guy on 4/22/23

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hopefullife ( member #71881) posted at 3:13 PM on Wednesday, December 18th, 2019

Hello there. We have great support here. Post more whenever ready. We can do this

[This message edited by hopefullife at 9:14 AM, December 18th (Wednesday)]

10 yrs together. 2 yrs married. No kids.
2 Ddays. H living with OW and their child.
Focusing on self.

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crazyblindsided ( member #35215) posted at 5:49 PM on Wednesday, December 18th, 2019

Welcome to this side of town. We will be here with you every step of the way!

[This message edited by crazyblindsided at 11:49 AM, December 18th (Wednesday)]

fBS/fWS(me):52 Mad-hattered after DD (2008)
XWS:55 Serial Cheater, Diagnosed NPD
DD(22) DS(19)
XWS cheated the entire M spanning 19 years
Discovered D-Days 2006,2008,2012, False R 2014
Separated 9/2019; Divorced 8/2024

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