Topic is Sleeping.
Party Monkey (original poster moderator #30) posted at 11:36 PM on Sunday, January 19th, 2020
Chrysalis123 ( member #27148) posted at 5:04 PM on Monday, January 20th, 2020
Thanks for you support and congratulations Marz!
Someone I once loved gave me/ a box full of darkness/ It took me years to understand/ That this, too, was a gift. - Mary Oliver
Just for the record darling, not all positive changes feel positive in the beginning -S C Lourie
lieshurt ( member #14003) posted at 7:10 PM on Monday, January 20th, 2020
No one changes unless they want to. Not if you beg them. Not if you shame them. Not if you use reason, emotion, or tough love. There is only one thing that makes someone change: their own realization that they need to.
WalkinOnEggshelz ( member #29447) posted at 10:38 PM on Monday, January 20th, 2020
Congrats! 
If you keep asking people to give you the benefit of the doubt, they will eventually start to doubt your benefit.
HalfTime2017 ( member #64366) posted at 5:08 AM on Wednesday, January 22nd, 2020
Mark probably never checks in here. Go Marz
dreamlife ( member #8142) posted at 6:49 AM on Thursday, January 23rd, 2020
Bravo!!!
~XWH told me what I wanted to hear but he always did whatever he wanted to do~
"He called me a bitch.
I called him an ambulance."
Linda H.)
steadychevy ( member #42608) posted at 10:51 AM on Thursday, January 23rd, 2020
Thanks for your dedication, Marz.
BH(me)72(now); XWW 64; M 42 yrsDDay1-01/09/13;DDay2-26/10/13;DDay3-19/12/13;DDay4-21/01/14LTA-09/02-06/06? OM - COW 4 years; "dates" w/3 lovers post engagement;ONS w/stranger post commitment, lies, lies, liesSeparated 23/09/2017; D 16/03/2020
somanyyears ( member #26970) posted at 2:45 PM on Thursday, January 23rd, 2020
..Congrats Marz.. ( I think? 
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Wish to God I never had a reason to 'start counting !! 
I wonder what our numbers would be if we counted 'how many posts each of us have read?
I also wonder if there are (were) members who made a paper copy of all their posts and bound them into 3 ring binders and have them lined up on the bookshelf?
If it took me 10 years to get 5000, there is a good chance I won't get to see 10,000. 
smy 
trust no other human- love only your pets. Reconciled I think! Me 77 Her 74 Married 52 yrs. 18 yr LTA with bff/lawyer. Little fucker died at 57.Brain tumour!
Topic is Sleeping.
