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ShatteredSakura ( member #70885) posted at 6:44 PM on Friday, February 14th, 2020
You may get one, but will it matter? I have gotten many apologies but nothing changes. Sometimes I feel like the apologies are another form of manipulation. It often causes me more issues with cognitive dissonance.
Yeah the apologies don't matter if they don't stop doing the behavior.
WW feels like she's apologized a million times and all I do anymoee is make her feel guilty. That's missing the point and I've told her many times, I don't want an apology I want her to do give me the one thing she has been unable to do (end things, go NC). And that's why we're separated.
Me reacting to her constant wayward behavior and that causing her guilt isn't *my issue*. She'd rather I just stuck my head in the sand. But no one can live like that.
tinlizzie ( new member #70286) posted at 8:04 PM on Friday, February 14th, 2020
Yeah the apologies don't matter if they don't stop doing the behavior.
WW feels like she's apologized a million times and all I do anymoee is make her feel guilty. That's missing the point and I've told her many times, I don't want an apology I want her to do give me the one thing she has been unable to do (end things, go NC). And that's why we're separated.
Me reacting to her constant wayward behavior and that causing her guilt isn't *my issue*. She'd rather I just stuck my head in the sand. But no one can live like that.
Our WW's ordered the same shitty how to reconcile manual....
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