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cocoplus5nuts ( member #45796) posted at 9:33 PM on Friday, February 14th, 2020
is it ok to have the expectation
I don't think it's a good idea to have expectations of anything. No one else ever has to do anything you want. With love languages, I found it was better to recognize when your partner is expressing love for you in his language.
Me(BW): 1970
WH(caveman): 1970
Married June, 2000
DDay#1 June 8, 2014 EA
DDay#2 12/05/14 confessed to sex before polygraph
Status: just living my life
DragnHeart (original poster member #32122) posted at 10:52 AM on Saturday, February 15th, 2020
With love languages, I found it was better to recognize when your partner is expressing love for you in his language.
I'll have to reread the love languages again because if this is the case what's the point?!?
If his love language is physical touch and mine is words of affirmation and all he ever does is feel me up I'm never going to feel loved the way I need to.
Me: BS 46 WH: 37 (BrokenHeart911)Four little dragons. Met 2006. Married 2008. Dday of LTPA with co worker October 19th 2010. Knew about EA with ow1 before that. Now up to PA #5. Serial fucking Cheater.
DragnHeart (original poster member #32122) posted at 10:52 AM on Saturday, February 15th, 2020
With love languages, I found it was better to recognize when your partner is expressing love for you in his language.
I'll have to reread the love languages again because if this is the case what's the point?!?
If his love language is physical touch and mine is words of affirmation and all he ever does is feel me up I'm never going to feel loved the way I need to.
Me: BS 46 WH: 37 (BrokenHeart911)Four little dragons. Met 2006. Married 2008. Dday of LTPA with co worker October 19th 2010. Knew about EA with ow1 before that. Now up to PA #5. Serial fucking Cheater.
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