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ashesofkali (original poster member #56327) posted at 1:36 AM on Tuesday, May 5th, 2020
"Hey dickface..." has become my standard opening line, for all the messages I compose but never send to my xWH. I got another pissy message from him today, about [insert stupid bullshit topic here]. I could respond, but I'm not going to, because I know it drives him nuts when he can't get a rise out of me. He's a serial cheater who checks all the boxes for NPD, and it just never stops with that guy. The more I ignore him, the harder he tries to get my attention. It's endlessly entertaining, to watch him unravel from a distance. Sometimes I start to feel guilty for enjoying it so much, but then I remember what he did to me and that's the end of it.
Wah. Poor little dickface.
Happy Monday, SI friends. Thanks for being here.
Me: 54yo former BW, divorced, no kids
Him: Deleted
homewrecked2011 ( member #34678) posted at 3:33 AM on Tuesday, May 5th, 2020
It IS endlessly entertaining to watch them unravel.
I get a kick out of it, too, when I think of how he holds zero power over me!!!!
I also stay NC and try to be a grey rock so that he goes bye-bye. I know that he will cycle back around and try to hook me with something, but I’m not biting.
Good for you being so strong...
Sometimes He calms the storm. Sometimes He lets the storm rage, but calms His child. Dday 12/19/11I went to an attorney and had him served. Shocked the hell out of him, with D papers, I'm proud to say!D final10/30/2012Me-55
ashesofkali (original poster member #56327) posted at 4:02 AM on Tuesday, May 5th, 2020
@homewrecked2011
Indifference is the best, ain't it? Screw those guys. Grey rock is the way to go. :)
Me: 54yo former BW, divorced, no kids
Him: Deleted
Decimated ( member #31656) posted at 9:46 PM on Tuesday, May 5th, 2020
Funny!
It's much more fun to ignore them. NC is the way to go.
Incidentally, my XWW is listed in my phone as "Cheating Lying Whore". So if she ever calls again, I will laugh and refuse the call.
Me -BH 47, now 56
Her-XWW 39, now, who cares
D Day #1 9/09 found out about texting
D day #2 1/11 found out EA on going
D day #3 4/11 found out EA was a PA
Divorced 1/13
ashesofkali (original poster member #56327) posted at 9:37 PM on Wednesday, May 6th, 2020
Incidentally, my XWW is listed in my phone as "Cheating Lying Whore". So if she ever calls again, I will laugh and refuse the call.
Decimated: LOLs! In my contacts, xWH is listed as "Dickface McCheater". I know it's childish, but it still makes me laugh.
Me: 54yo former BW, divorced, no kids
Him: Deleted
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