Karma62 posted 3/20/2009 15:29 PM

You seem to be the experienced person. I am new. My only comment on your primer is the not spending time together part initially. Ok,.... like the first 2 - weeks painful, but the next 2 months were key to spend time (or is that the 3 - 6 month thing?). We took two trips since D-day, skiing and the UK, both good ideas for us and our therapist said also. He goes away and I am lost. Being togehter seems to help, for both of us to get over this.

JoePike posted 4/2/2009 06:54 AM

Bump for Allybam and other newcomers

newyear posted 4/2/2009 07:35 AM

Once again, Thanks for your information and sharing your thoughts.

SuspiciousWife posted 4/8/2009 17:39 PM

Bumping again.

gma56 posted 4/27/2009 23:51 PM

Bump it to the top !

snowdrop posted 4/28/2009 04:12 AM

This has been really, really helpful; thank you!

redrock posted 4/30/2009 19:50 PM

Bumping

hecheated400 posted 5/3/2009 15:12 PM

A must read for all newbies on JFO. Thanks so much!
bump.

Jodi posted 5/3/2009 17:42 PM

Thank you for taking the time to do this. It really helps. I justt found out about the A a couple weeks ago and am still in a state of disbelief and feel paralized to do anything.

kluelesskat posted 5/5/2009 01:58 AM

Good plan

SerJR posted 5/7/2009 21:21 PM

Updates made

thyme2go posted 5/11/2009 12:52 PM

Bumping for new members.

itspjw posted 5/12/2009 11:10 AM

bump back to page one

SerJR posted 5/14/2009 21:23 PM

gma56 posted 5/16/2009 23:10 PM

Give ya bump Ser !!

gma56 posted 5/17/2009 14:18 PM

More pain so giving it front page

Joyslyn posted 5/17/2009 22:30 PM

Wow. Thank you! Just began reading this post... and am compelled to bump again.

JustKeepSwimmig posted 5/22/2009 11:50 AM

Bump

SuspiciousWife posted 5/28/2009 09:24 AM

bump

Hell a fury posted 5/28/2009 09:43 AM

Thank-you. Wish I'd read this sooner, before acting like a hot head.