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Rebreather posted 7/25/2013 12:27 PM

Nice work, Jrazz. And I mean that in the broadest possible way, nice work.

Faithful w/Love posted 7/25/2013 12:35 PM

Jrazz,
I love the post, you have helped me in so many ways. Your words have lifted me when I was alone at night or feeling lonely in the day.

You are so correct!

Skan posted 7/25/2013 13:29 PM

Thank you for sharing, not only this post, but your on-going compassion.

Jrazz posted 7/26/2013 23:02 PM

Thanks to each of you too. Your support/friendship has always been uplifting.

Jrazz posted 8/12/2013 23:27 PM

Got a PM from a friend in WS who suggested I bump.

Hugs to everyone tonight.

pregnantandsad posted 8/13/2013 12:02 PM

You write beautifully, and this was just what I needed to read this morning. Thank you.

OldCow18 posted 8/13/2013 12:25 PM

Thank you, I really needed this today.

ascian posted 8/13/2013 12:25 PM

Thanks for the post. I found out just a couple days ago and am still pretty tossed about, but seeing this near the top of the JFO forum helps ground me...at least a bit.

marion posted 8/13/2013 16:46 PM

The pinnacle of this education, for me, has been the knowledge that our worst fears can come to fruition at any moment, and we can get through it. This betrayal is most certainly on par with any other life tragedy that one may face. We’re terrified of betrayal on a whole, and when it hits it’s just as bad if not worse than we imagined. But then something remarkable happens – the world keeps turning. Kids make us laugh. Pets kiss our faces. We perform something artfully, or skillfully and we feel pride in our action. We live – and we have the opportunity to live well again.

Thanks so much Jrazz.....
this is so valuable to hear.....
very inspirational whatever situation you are in....

Marion

Abbondad posted 8/13/2013 16:55 PM

Thank you Jrazz. I have come a long way since my early questions, all manifestations of "Will my WW come back to me?"

I have since abandoned that question (at least 75%) and now indeed my question is "Am I going to be OK?"

With the indespensible help of SI, I know the answer to be "Yes."

Thanks to everyone.

nekorb posted 8/13/2013 17:01 PM

I'm trying to have faith in what you have written. This is all still very new to me, my husband isn't giving me any reassurance at all, and I'm fairly sure I will die of heart break if he leaves me and the children.

But I'm trying to have faith.

IslandGirl18 posted 8/13/2013 19:19 PM

Beautiful. Inspiring. Well-written. Thoughtful. Genuine.

Thank you so very much!

forgivingnow posted 10/31/2013 13:19 PM

Jrazz
I copied this in July and carry it in my purse to read for inspiration when I need it. Wanted to bump this for new members.

catatonic posted 11/1/2013 12:33 PM

Thank you,
This is why SI has been so helpful fir me. When you think you are all alone in your feelings. Someone a little further down the road puts you back on track
Thank you JRazz

pregnantandsad posted 11/1/2013 13:53 PM

You are wonderful, thank you!

Jrazz posted 11/2/2013 20:03 PM

I'm always happy to help. So many have come before me and lifted me up.

painfulpast posted 11/2/2013 20:55 PM

I am so happy someone found this and moved it to the top, because I was able to see it and read it. Just wonderful!!! BRAVO Jrazz!!

Jrazz posted 11/5/2013 21:10 PM

Thanks, painfulpast.

Found this pic today... made me smile and think of y'all.

SoVerySadNow posted 11/6/2013 11:32 AM

Thank you for sharing your wisdom, your experiences, and yourself. Good job!

Jrazz posted 11/13/2013 12:33 PM