Topic is Sleeping.
BrokenRoad (original poster member #15334) posted at 4:13 AM on Thursday, August 8th, 2019
Hope you have a wonderful day! 
{Him}FBH - 51 (WifeHad5){Me} FWW - 52 2 kids: 16 & 21 Reconciled :)*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*
BearlyBreathing ( member #55075) posted at 4:46 AM on Thursday, August 8th, 2019
Me: BS 57 (49 on d-day)Him: *who cares ;-) *. D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA. Kinda liking my new life :-)
**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **
lieshurt ( member #14003) posted at 1:39 PM on Thursday, August 8th, 2019
No one changes unless they want to. Not if you beg them. Not if you shame them. Not if you use reason, emotion, or tough love. There is only one thing that makes someone change: their own realization that they need to.
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 9:11 PM on Thursday, August 8th, 2019
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
DragnHeart ( member #32122) posted at 9:15 PM on Thursday, August 8th, 2019
Happy Birthday!!!!!!
(Miss you)
Me: BS 46 WH: 37 (BrokenHeart911)Four little dragons. Met 2006. Married 2008. Dday of LTPA with co worker October 19th 2010. Knew about EA with ow1 before that. Now up to PA #5. Serial fucking Cheater.
Chrysalis123 ( member #27148) posted at 9:15 PM on Thursday, August 8th, 2019
Someone I once loved gave me/ a box full of darkness/ It took me years to understand/ That this, too, was a gift. - Mary Oliver
Just for the record darling, not all positive changes feel positive in the beginning -S C Lourie
Unhinged ( member #47977) posted at 9:30 PM on Thursday, August 8th, 2019
Married 2005
D-Day April, 2015
Divorced May, 2022
"The Universe is not short on wake-up calls. We're just quick to hit the snooze button." -Brene Brown
WalkinOnEggshelz ( member #29447) posted at 10:38 PM on Thursday, August 8th, 2019
Happy Birthday! 
If you keep asking people to give you the benefit of the doubt, they will eventually start to doubt your benefit.
thebighurt ( member #34722) posted at 3:03 AM on Friday, August 9th, 2019
Happy Birthday Sazzy! We miss you!
Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?
traicionada ( member #10310) posted at 4:46 AM on Friday, August 9th, 2019
Real love is a CHOICE, NOT a feeling...
Tred ( member #34086) posted at 7:36 AM on Monday, August 12th, 2019
Happy Birthday Sazzy! Hope you had a wonderful day!
Married: 27 years (14 @JFO) D-Day: 11/09/11"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)
better4me ( member #30341) posted at 3:34 AM on Tuesday, August 13th, 2019
Happy Birthday Sazzy! What a good day for me to stop by for a visit to SI. Glad I could wish you happy birthday wishes.
DDay 11/17/2010 BW:58
Happily remarried!
Topic is Sleeping.
