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 Phcj123 (original poster member #71603) posted at 3:37 PM on Friday, November 15th, 2019

Husband cheated and left 2 months ago. Have a 1 year old and pretty sure he is dating the new girl. So obviously my friends and family despise him right now. My best friend just had a baby and he sent her a text congratulating her. He was not friends with her and is not a friendly outgoing person to just msg people. I find this so strange. My friend is like boiling right now that he would have guts to even msg her. Isn’t this strange !? Meanwhile I am calling divorce lawyer today to get this moving.

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cancuncrushed ( member #28156) posted at 2:49 AM on Saturday, November 16th, 2019

She can block him. He is prolly not done. Maybe he was hoping to open the door of conversation about you. Use her

Xwh does this. We have no mutual friends. Or neighbors. He has zero updates. When he wants me to know something. To hurt me. He writes the lawyers , letters. Long letters. So it will get back to me. It doesn’t work. They don’t tell me.

We have restraining order. I’m so glad. I didn’t think we needed it. But his behavior worsened. He plays mind games.

They can become desperate.

His longest letter to lawyer was 15 pages. This is on going.

a trigger yesterday

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 Phcj123 (original poster member #71603) posted at 3:04 AM on Saturday, November 16th, 2019

cancuncrushed, think he may be doing it to make himself feel that he is a good guy. He already called my parents to apologize too. Yet I have never received an apology. He’s all about preserving his image and still denies cheating.

Oh geez that’s crazy. Glad you got the restraining order ! We deserve so much better !

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Tallgirl ( member #64088) posted at 3:18 AM on Saturday, November 16th, 2019

Phcj

I think he is clueless and already thinks he is a good guy.

Standing tall

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