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20yrsagoBS (original poster member #55272) posted at 3:42 AM on Saturday, November 23rd, 2019
My WA becomes upset when I refer to the deliberate lying and cheating as “monstrous”
He did/does this, but doesn’t think it makes him a monster.
Perhaps I am oversimplifying, but don’t monsters regularly do monstrous things?
BW, 54 WH 53 When you lie down with dogs, you wake up with fleas
OwningItNow ( member #52288) posted at 4:21 AM on Saturday, November 23rd, 2019
The solution to a wayward who does not get it is not trying harder, getting louder, or becoming more nasty. The solution is walking away.
He chooses to continue the disrespect.
So choose to let him live somewhere else.
me: BS/WS h: WS/BS
Reject the rejector. Do not reject yourself.
ShatteredSakura ( member #70885) posted at 6:56 AM on Saturday, November 23rd, 2019
Oh I've called my exWW a monster to her face a few times (her AP as well, they both are) after some of the things she pulled.
The deliberate lying and cheating is indeed monstrous. It does seem like the only solution when it's a serial cheater is to walk away.
J707 ( member #63778) posted at 2:11 PM on Saturday, November 23rd, 2019
My ex is like a little kid: I'm rubber and your glue whatever you say to me bounces off and sticks to you. Monster would be a good one. All the things she did, said or lied about were extremely monstrous. So yes, monster fits the bill. If the shoe fits...
cocoplus5nuts ( member #45796) posted at 2:17 PM on Saturday, November 23rd, 2019
The solution to a wayward who does not get it is not trying harder, getting louder, or becoming more nasty. The solution is walking away.
He chooses to continue the disrespect.
So choose to let him live somewhere else.
Me(BW): 1970
WH(caveman): 1970
Married June, 2000
DDay#1 June 8, 2014 EA
DDay#2 12/05/14 confessed to sex before polygraph
Status: just living my life
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