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Should I tell the amp spouse?

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Anotheron3 posted 1/20/2020 16:38 PM

If I was the other BH, then I'd want to know.

sassylee posted 1/20/2020 17:19 PM

Good job Shocked!!! We’re proud of you! You did that man a kindness. He can now choose how he’d like to move forward with the necessary knowledge to decide well.

Shocked1989 posted 1/20/2020 21:24 PM

Did you tell your WH? Or are you waiting to hear if he "somehow" finds out OBS now knows ?

I told my WH that I was thinking about telling the OBS before I posted this thread. He doesn’t have any contact with the AP so I wasn’t worried about it. He told me I could do whatever I wanted to in regards to telling this person. He has a home office. I have access to all social media, location access, phone, work email, etc. He answers all my questions and is very open about everything because he is remorseful and wants to R.

I did get a text from AP after her husband confronted her. She seemed a little upset with me. She made her bed......

[This message edited by Shocked1989 at 8:28 AM, January 22nd (Wednesday)]

sassylee posted 1/20/2020 23:34 PM

Poor muffin, it sucks having to lie in the bed she made herself.

Buffer posted 1/21/2020 00:10 AM

Well done. Affairs persons are like cockroaches, they thrive in the dark when no one is looking. Exspose it, shine a light on the A and all parties who knew but did nothing. The cockroaches will either scurry t
Back to the dark. Or end the A.
👍
Buffer

Dragonfly123 posted 1/21/2020 00:36 AM

Oh dear AP not happy huh? Sucks when you have to face consequences for your actions. You did the right thing Shocked. I hope you’re riding this roller coaster as best you can, you’re only a few moths out from dday so do take care of yourself!

ThisIsSoLonely posted 1/21/2020 12:51 PM

I told after a year as it really bothered me that I hadn't. When d-day2 happened for me, I told him immediately and I don't regret it.

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