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Sennah (original poster member #8630) posted at 5:26 PM on Friday, February 14th, 2020
For the past 19 years, I have been grieving the loss of my DH and marriage. Nineteen LONG years of pure suffering. However, 7 months ago, I met a truly wonderful man. He has made it his goal to undue every mean thing DH did to me and it feels so great. I can't believe I'm in love again. I really did think it was hopeless. I guess my point is that everyone here should just hold on....because not all storms come to disrupt your life, some come to clear the path. Good luck and healing to all.
Me: BS 50
Him: Loser 53
Twin Sons: 23
Married 12 years
Together for 19 years (high school sweethearts)
"Wish I didn't know now what I didn't know then." -Bob Seger
Dorothy123 ( member #53116) posted at 5:36 PM on Friday, February 14th, 2020
Great to hear the news!
Yes, it is inspiring that all of us can make it like you !
"I’ll get you my pretty, and your little dog too!" Wicked Witch of the West.
BearlyBreathing ( member #55075) posted at 8:28 PM on Friday, February 14th, 2020
Me: BS 57 (49 on d-day)Him: *who cares ;-) *. D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA. Kinda liking my new life :-)
**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **
crazyblindsided ( member #35215) posted at 10:02 PM on Friday, February 14th, 2020
(((Sennah))) this made me smile today!
fBS/fWS(me):52 Mad-hattered after DD (2008)
XWS:55 Serial Cheater, Diagnosed NPD
DD(22) DS(19)
XWS cheated the entire M spanning 19 years
Discovered D-Days 2006,2008,2012, False R 2014
Separated 9/2019; Divorced 8/2024
Shockedmom ( member #44708) posted at 10:06 PM on Friday, February 14th, 2020
Made my day! So happy for you.
thatbpguy ( member #58540) posted at 10:07 PM on Friday, February 14th, 2020
I think that is WONDERFUL.
ME: BH Her: WW DDay 1, R; DDay 2, R; DDay 3, I left; Divorced Remarried to a wonderful woman
"There are far, far better things ahead than any we leave behind." C.S. Lewis
As a dog returns to his vomit, so a fool repeats his folly...
NorCalLost ( member #63815) posted at 10:09 PM on Friday, February 14th, 2020
(((Sennah)))
Your story is so inspirational, and in some ways reminds me of mine. My first husband cheated, and my second husband actually broke my heart twice in this lifetime. I actually met second husband before first, and had two years with second husband in the early '90s - he then left me for someone else, who he married and was with for nearly 30 years before SHE left HIM for someone else.
After our respective divorces we reconnected and married. He cheated and left me after six years.
I have so much regret about wasting most of my adult life on these two, but I'm getting ready to relocate out of my home state and buy a house all on my own, so I'm hopeful that my path to joy will open up sooner than later.
If you don't mind the nosiness, how did you meet the wonderful man you're now with?
DDay 4/23/18. Second WH. Second divorce.
somanyyears ( member #26970) posted at 10:10 PM on Friday, February 14th, 2020
.. 
Someone said, somewhere in history..
"Good things come to those who wait."
You've waited...long enough! May he be all that you hope him to be... and more.
smy
trust no other human- love only your pets. Reconciled I think! Me 77 Her 74 Married 52 yrs. 18 yr LTA with bff/lawyer. Little fucker died at 57.Brain tumour!
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