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Fractured Fairy tale Thank you

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 Muggle (original poster member #62011) posted at 6:37 PM on Wednesday, June 17th, 2020

I found this online recently and thought it might help to see things in a different light.

Thank you for:

*Walking away. It taught me not to run.

*For being weak. It made me strong.

*For being a coward. It made me brave.

*For slamming the door so others could open.

*For being a lesson so I knew I deserved better.

*For the good times so I had positive things to look back on.

*For letting me go, so I could grow and realize my worth.

*For the red flags so I could catch them in the future.

*For lying. It will always keep me honest.

*For being the experience that will always stay in the past.

*For leaving me so I could make space for healthier surroundings.

*For hurting me. Now I am tough.

*For not loving me, because you taught me to love myself.

"The energy we spend on regret, hate, and sorrow only takes away from the energy we can put toward self-love, appreciation and confidence. It's ok to look back and cherish the good times, and it's ok to look back and learn from the hard times. Don't hold onto the negativity and grudges, because your energy is best spent elsewhere."

"It's ok to be grateful for the experiences that have made you who you are. You are as strong as what life throws at you, so learn to be thankful for what walks into your life when you least expect it, and what walks out of your life when it no longer serves a healthy purpose. It's ok to let go, it means you are ready for something better."

If you're having a hard time, I hope this helps. It helped me.

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EllieKMAS ( member #68900) posted at 7:49 PM on Wednesday, June 17th, 2020

(((muggle)))

All so true and definitely worth remembering. This one will go in my save spot for sure!

Hope you are doing better lady!

"No, it's you mothafucka, here's a list of reasons why." – Iliza Schlesinger

"The love that you lost isn't worth what it cost and in time you'll be glad that it's gone." – Linkin Park

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Trust55 ( member #60672) posted at 10:06 PM on Wednesday, June 17th, 2020

Thank you Muggle I needed this today.

Me - BS - D Day 03.19.2017 ( 2 days before our 31 wedding anniversary)False R Divorce in progress FILED JUNE 2017,
TRIAL JUNE 2022! It’s pretty sad married to a LIAR and CHEATER.

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Hurtingnconfused ( member #44926) posted at 11:09 PM on Wednesday, June 17th, 2020

I also needed this. its raining outside and feels like it is a reflection of my emotions. It helps!

Bought a new couch, popped the popcorn, now we wait for the fireworks, they shall be glorious!!

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crazyblindsided ( member #35215) posted at 6:30 AM on Thursday, June 18th, 2020

This helps a lot and I am saving.

fBS/fWS(me):52 Mad-hattered after DD (2008)
XWS:55 Serial Cheater, Diagnosed NPD
DD(22) DS(19)
XWS cheated the entire M spanning 19 years
Discovered D-Days 2006,2008,2012, False R 2014
Separated 9/2019; Divorced 8/2024

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IndependenceSoon ( new member #71760) posted at 5:58 PM on Sunday, June 21st, 2020

I love this!!!

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