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I'm out!

hurt83 posted 9/7/2020 18:07 PM

I found out 5 yrs ago that my wh cheated. He was very remorseful and a great father and all the other excuses as to why I stayed. It hasnt been the greatest over the years, but we made it work. On Saturday, I was on his phone bc my battery died. I googled something and his past searches popped up.... he had been looking around for escorts in our area. Im done! I had a well paying job that i got laid off from and I havent been able to find anything that remotely pays what that one did. Im going to have to restart my entire life! I dont have supportive family that will help me out with the kids til I get on my feet! I hate this! Im trapped!

[This message edited by hurt83 at 12:38 PM, September 8th (Tuesday)]

phmh posted 9/7/2020 18:16 PM

(((hurt))) look at the long game. You are in the process of positioning yourself for great happiness down the road. I'd also lost my job right at time of divorce, and things worked out. You've got this.

Chrysalis123 posted 9/7/2020 18:25 PM

Hi Hurt83. I am so sorry you needed to find us again. This sucks and what an asshole maneuver from him.

OK, you know. Keep it secret if you can, while you get your ducks in a row. Like all of the ducks in a row before you spectaculary play your hand and get out with the best settlement possible.

Others will be along soon. You will get a lot of advice. Keep asking questions until you see YOUR path.


BearlyBreathing posted 9/8/2020 00:12 AM

I lost my job right around then too— does suck, but you will get through it.

Sorry it came to this, but get your ducks lined up.

The1stWife posted 9/8/2020 06:40 AM

Start by saving every dime you can. Once your nest egg starts building you will start Feel empowered.

Work on your plan B. That will make you feel less trapped.

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