I never had met ow 1 before the affair.
Ow 2, id known for several years, had been to her parents house (they have a pool and id been to pool parties there)
At some point she and my wh started texting at 2 am
At some point they started sharing marital woes
At some point they shared i love yous (ONLY AS BROTHER AND SISTER! OF COURSE!)
She threw me a baby shower last year. My sister said, “why is this woman inserting herself into your life?”
My friends agreed it was weird.
I found out my wh told her he loved her more than a sibling and asked her about it. She said yes it happened, but she didnt remember what he said because he was just being an asshole and messing with her.
Why would you continue texting that man? Who says he adores you?
Dont you value YOUR marriage, even if you dont care about his?
My belief- why their “friendship” ended, is that her husband found out and flipped out. I dont think she ended the friendship on her own.
I had a dream about her last night, and found out they had a physical affair. I wasn’t surprised. I was hurt, but not surprised.
[This message edited by Gottagetthrough at 2:47 PM, November 2nd (Monday)]