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Recommendation Please! One book for a non-reader

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 Fractured.Us (original poster member #35085) posted at 4:43 PM on Saturday, August 4th, 2012

I would really appreciate some recomms on a book for my H, who isn't really a big reader...

If you had to suggest one book for a WS to read to help a BS heal and work through the after effects of an A, what would it be?

I went theough the library link in the menu, but there were so many and he just wont read all that unfortunately, so trying to narrow down the list. He is (was? Lol) very logical, rational, and tend to take the scientific approach to most things. So something that would or could resonate with this type of thinker? I can't even find the right words to describe! Sorry if it's rambling. My brain needs a reboot I think.

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This was not how it was supposed to end.

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aesir ( member #17210) posted at 5:17 PM on Saturday, August 4th, 2012

Infidelity Crisis by Katie Kosten is an ebook, it is short, even shorter if you skip over the blocks of religious texts, and seems to cover most things in a straightforward maner, lists an issue, tells them how to act, tells them why they should do that.

Your mileage may vary... in accordance with the prophecy.

Do not back up. Severe tire damage.

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 Fractured.Us (original poster member #35085) posted at 5:23 PM on Saturday, August 4th, 2012

Thank you, Aesir. I just searched for it on iBook store but no go there. I just d/l kindle for iPad so will check it there. :)

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aesir ( member #17210) posted at 6:54 PM on Saturday, August 4th, 2012

Actually, it is a pdf file, there is a website for it where you can download.

http://www.aftertheaffair.net/download.htm

Your mileage may vary... in accordance with the prophecy.

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 Fractured.Us (original poster member #35085) posted at 7:12 PM on Saturday, August 4th, 2012

I googled the book and found it. Will definitely download it and send it off to H to read while he's away.

Thank you! :)

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osca ( member #35628) posted at 8:48 AM on Tuesday, August 7th, 2012

Very short book, to the point, easy to grasp:

http://www.amazon.com/Help-Your-Spouse-Heal-Affair/dp/145055332X

my WH (also a non reader) read and reread it several times.

Me: BS 32
Him: WS 36
Kids: 3 yr Son
Complication: Expats living abroad
Married: 03/2006, together since 2003
Dday: April 7th 2012, 6 months emotional, 3 months physical
OW: 35, his first gf, daughter of a prostitute (no really!) Apple >> Tree

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 Fractured.Us (original poster member #35085) posted at 5:18 PM on Tuesday, August 7th, 2012

Thank you, Osca. Will check it out as well. :)

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