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BrokenRoad (original poster member #15334) posted at 4:02 AM on Tuesday, March 19th, 2013
I don't much like Conan O'Brien most of the time, so when it's on I try to find something else. I can't, however be bothered to get the remote, so I will sit here and whine about it instead. 
Pretty lazy.
What bout you guys? (Translated for SerJr - what aboot you guys?)
{Him}FBH - 51 (WifeHad5){Me} FWW - 52 2 kids: 16 & 21 Reconciled :)*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*
Sad in AZ ( member #24239) posted at 4:05 AM on Tuesday, March 19th, 2013
I walk over the piles of dirty clothes until there is nothing clean to wear.
Yes, I'm 'that' person... 
You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.
Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-63
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011
BrokenRoad (original poster member #15334) posted at 4:06 AM on Tuesday, March 19th, 2013
{Him}FBH - 51 (WifeHad5){Me} FWW - 52 2 kids: 16 & 21 Reconciled :)*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*
BaxtersBFF ( member #26859) posted at 4:12 AM on Tuesday, March 19th, 2013
I have the kids do the dishes, pick up the dog poop in the yard and sometimes start dinner while I'm on SI.
gahurts ( member #33699) posted at 6:18 AM on Tuesday, March 19th, 2013
I will pile the clean clothes on the floor across the room from the dirty clothes pile because I am too tired/lazy to fold them and put them away (but I got them all put up before I left for the G2G). Fortuantely the dog prefers to lay in teh dirty clothes more than the clean ones.
"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi
"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie
Jrazz ( member #31349) posted at 6:21 AM on Tuesday, March 19th, 2013
I just trained DD2 to feed the dogs. She even makes sure she's using the correct color coded bowl for the individual hypo-allergenic, protein specific foods that each pug requires.
Also, I use the baby shampoo if I'm downstairs taking a shower and was too lazy to go upstairs and get mine. 
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom
Laura28 ( member #28997) posted at 8:47 AM on Tuesday, March 19th, 2013
Rinse last night's wine glass before pouring a new one some nights cause the cupboard where the clean one's are kept is five steps further away than the sink.
God! Typing all that I'm exhausted. Need a rest now. 
Laura
Married 42yrs Me BW 68Yrs Him F?WH 70yrs OWzero 1988 EA?/PA? Gaslighted. Dday May 28 2010. OW1 1994(6mths PA, EA 16+ years). OW2 2002(8yrs PA). OW3 2009(1Yr PA). Others?? Status: Not Divorcing..but.."You can't unfuck 'em"
aesir ( member #17210) posted at 8:54 AM on Tuesday, March 19th, 2013
Lazy with wine...
Check out this from my desk.
Your mileage may vary... in accordance with the prophecy.
Do not back up. Severe tire damage.
Laura28 ( member #28997) posted at 9:06 AM on Tuesday, March 19th, 2013
Married 42yrs Me BW 68Yrs Him F?WH 70yrs OWzero 1988 EA?/PA? Gaslighted. Dday May 28 2010. OW1 1994(6mths PA, EA 16+ years). OW2 2002(8yrs PA). OW3 2009(1Yr PA). Others?? Status: Not Divorcing..but.."You can't unfuck 'em"
m334455 ( member #26893) posted at 10:03 AM on Tuesday, March 19th, 2013
Since I work from home sometimes I work in my jammies for half the day before I take a shower and get dressed.
BW 38, 5 kids
Dday Dec. 2009
Laura28 ( member #28997) posted at 11:33 AM on Tuesday, March 19th, 2013
Hey M33
Me too!!!! I knew we were sisters in another life!!! 
Laura
Married 42yrs Me BW 68Yrs Him F?WH 70yrs OWzero 1988 EA?/PA? Gaslighted. Dday May 28 2010. OW1 1994(6mths PA, EA 16+ years). OW2 2002(8yrs PA). OW3 2009(1Yr PA). Others?? Status: Not Divorcing..but.."You can't unfuck 'em"
Sad in AZ ( member #24239) posted at 12:31 PM on Tuesday, March 19th, 2013
You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.
Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-63
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011
metamorphisis ( member #12041) posted at 3:23 PM on Tuesday, March 19th, 2013
The laziest thing I do is wake up in the middle of the night having to go pee and just lay there and lay there hoping it will go away.
I mean really.. I know it's not going to, I know eventually I will have to give up and walk the 15 steps to the bathroom. It's not like I live in the 1800's on the Prairies and have to walk outside on the frozen tundra to go to the outhouse. Yet there I am lying all wrapped in my blankets for an hour trying to will away the need to pee.
Go softly my sweet friend. You will always be a part of who I am.
Deeply Scared ( Administrator #2) posted at 3:28 PM on Tuesday, March 19th, 2013
OMG...Meta...I do the exact same thing!!!!!
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)
My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.
Amazonia ( member #32810) posted at 3:58 PM on Tuesday, March 19th, 2013
I've started leaving junk food in the living room so I won't have to get it out again the next night.
This weekend I went through an entire box of lucky charms. I managed to get them to last all weekend by eating them with chopsticks (no milk).
"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 3:59 PM on Tuesday, March 19th, 2013
Me too, meta! Next time, try changing positions. That usually buys me another 15 minutes.
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
SisterMilkshake ( member #30024) posted at 4:06 PM on Tuesday, March 19th, 2013
Once I was too lazy to do my laundry and all my underwear were dirty. I wore a pair of DH's underwear to work that day.
BW (me) & FWH both over half a century; married several decades; children
d-day 3/10; LTA (7 years?)
"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak." ~ Homer Simpson
lieshurt ( member #14003) posted at 4:07 PM on Tuesday, March 19th, 2013
I wore a pair of DH's underwear to work that day.
Sister, were they boxers or briefs? 
No one changes unless they want to. Not if you beg them. Not if you shame them. Not if you use reason, emotion, or tough love. There is only one thing that makes someone change: their own realization that they need to.
Amazonia ( member #32810) posted at 4:08 PM on Tuesday, March 19th, 2013
I had a college roommate who put off laundry and ran out of undies. So she handwashed one pair and then thought she'd try drying them in the microwave.
They caught on fire.
"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ
SisterMilkshake ( member #30024) posted at 4:09 PM on Tuesday, March 19th, 2013
He had this odd pair of bikini briefs that I wore!
BW (me) & FWH both over half a century; married several decades; children
d-day 3/10; LTA (7 years?)
"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak." ~ Homer Simpson
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