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As of this moment, DS is at work!!!

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 authenticnow (original poster member #16024) posted at 1:09 PM on Tuesday, September 7th, 2010

Yep, started his job today at 8AM. I'm so happy. He's so excited, he's seeing a light at the end of his tunnel.

His plan is to put lots of money away and save for his own place

Things are looking up

DS, you are forever in my heart. Thank you for sharing your beautiful spirit with me. I will always try to live by the example you have set. I love you and miss you every day and am sorry you had to go so soon, it just doesn't seem fair.

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drowninginsorrow ( member #4545) posted at 1:16 PM on Tuesday, September 7th, 2010

happy happy for you all... i hope he enjoys his day! proud, hopeful day for you AN

Love is a snowmobile racing across the tundra and then suddenly it flips over, pinning you underneath. At night, the ice weasels come.- Matt Groening
"I've found the secret to life. I'm ok when everything is not ok"- Tori Amos lyrics

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Mama_of_3_Kids ( member #26651) posted at 1:22 PM on Tuesday, September 7th, 2010

Congrats! This is a big day for him

Me: BW/33 The kidlets: DS16, DS12, and DD10 The hounds: Three Shih Tzu's The felines: Two short haired kitteh's

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 authenticnow (original poster member #16024) posted at 1:26 PM on Tuesday, September 7th, 2010

Thank you, dis and mama.

I, too, am off for my first day back to work

I hate when summer vacation ends!

Anyway.....time to make the donuts (or, in my case, the lesson plans ).

DS, you are forever in my heart. Thank you for sharing your beautiful spirit with me. I will always try to live by the example you have set. I love you and miss you every day and am sorry you had to go so soon, it just doesn't seem fair.

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kdny ( member #760) posted at 3:20 PM on Tuesday, September 7th, 2010

I'm so happy for him AN.

Whether we remain ash or become phoenix is up to us.
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Sometimes the fine line between a nervous breakdown and knowing things will be okay is a pair of furry pants~unfound

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MovingUpward ( member #14866) posted at 4:13 PM on Tuesday, September 7th, 2010

Awesome!!!!

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unfound ( member #12802) posted at 4:13 PM on Tuesday, September 7th, 2010

ka-mai
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Kids on the playground can be so cruel. “Get off the swings you’re like 50, and stop talking about Soundgarden, we don't even know what that is."

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UR_AN_IDIOT ( member #18764) posted at 5:22 PM on Tuesday, September 7th, 2010

Awesome!

Me: BW 56
FWH: 58
Married 33 years
DD 31 DS 28
Reconciled

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MissesJai ( member #24849) posted at 5:39 PM on Tuesday, September 7th, 2010

YEAH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Happily divorcing..
My Life is Mine!!!!
#BlackLivesMatter
Don't settle for no fuck shit....

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willowiris ( member #5372) posted at 6:26 PM on Tuesday, September 7th, 2010

Very good! Tell him no poker though.

Have a good day back among the munchkins!

D-day 09/2004
Filed for divorce 9/2006

We accept the love we think we deserve. "The Perks of Being a Wallflower."

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socold ( member #17400) posted at 11:55 PM on Tuesday, September 7th, 2010

Sweeet!!! So glad this is starting to get better for you (and for him).

(me)fBH 35
D-Day Dec 9, 2007
D final Oct 19th 2010

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howcouldhe1 ( member #13210) posted at 12:04 AM on Wednesday, September 8th, 2010

That's great news. So glad he's turned the corner.

Me BS 54 FWH (BT) 52 M 22 years D Day 4/11/06 Over a year of trickle truths. March 08. D Day 2. Online porn and SA. Just when I thought we'd be ok, July 19 08. BT had accident. Severe brain damage, in persistent vegetative state. I lost him anyway.

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Sad in AZ ( member #24239) posted at 8:17 AM on Wednesday, September 8th, 2010

This is wonderful! I'm very happy for all of you.

You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.

Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-63
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011

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 authenticnow (original poster member #16024) posted at 12:52 PM on Wednesday, September 8th, 2010

Thanks

DS, you are forever in my heart. Thank you for sharing your beautiful spirit with me. I will always try to live by the example you have set. I love you and miss you every day and am sorry you had to go so soon, it just doesn't seem fair.

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cantlivewithouth ( member #11939) posted at 12:54 PM on Wednesday, September 8th, 2010

I hope his first day went well.

And I hope yours did too.

Married a truly wonderful and loving man Sept. 19, 2010. Not only survived, but thrived.

My new mantra: Argue Your Limitations.‎

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 authenticnow (original poster member #16024) posted at 12:58 PM on Wednesday, September 8th, 2010

Hi cant!

His day went well...lots of safety training, he said it was boring but typical for the beginning of the type of job it is.

Mine was okay too...got the classrooms ready. Now we have lots of planning to do. The kids come in on Monday. I am just not in the mindset, have so much other stuff going on.

But, it's a job, I am grateful to have it

DS, you are forever in my heart. Thank you for sharing your beautiful spirit with me. I will always try to live by the example you have set. I love you and miss you every day and am sorry you had to go so soon, it just doesn't seem fair.

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drowninginsorrow ( member #4545) posted at 1:26 PM on Wednesday, September 8th, 2010

Love is a snowmobile racing across the tundra and then suddenly it flips over, pinning you underneath. At night, the ice weasels come.- Matt Groening
"I've found the secret to life. I'm ok when everything is not ok"- Tori Amos lyrics

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tryingtwo ( member #19717) posted at 2:12 PM on Wednesday, September 8th, 2010

Innocent people generally want to get to the bottom of things. Guilty people usually want the discussion to be over as soon as possible.

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