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Not sure how to feel

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 Phoenix1 (original poster member #38928) posted at 9:05 PM on Friday, April 19th, 2013

My DD16 just called me and said, "guess who just texted me?" I, of course, said, "Who?" Her response, "My sperm donor..."

Not sure if I should be laughing or crying about that one. Laughing because it is really funny, actually, or crying because that is how she feels about her father at the moment. She was his "little girl" for years (until teenage hormones kicked in).

fBS - Me
Xhole - Multiple LTAs/2 OCs over 20+yrs
Adult Kids
Happily divorced!

You can't go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending. ~C.S. Lewis~

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LastChanceLarry ( member #37322) posted at 9:15 PM on Friday, April 19th, 2013

I think you gotta just laugh about this one. WH is gonna have a lot to answer to if he ever wants to patch things up with DD. Ride the emotion with her.

~Larry

D-Day: 8/27/12
Me: BBF (29)
WXGF: Confused26 (27) EA/PA with xBF, lasted almost a year. TT, blameshifting, gaslighting, & broken NC for 10 months.
DS: 3
Together 5 years

3+ years later and I am doing great! Hell of a ride but well worth it.

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callmecrazy ( member #38765) posted at 9:50 PM on Friday, April 19th, 2013

Laugh about it. Tell her she knows he loves her even if his actions make it seem unlikely.

Lets be honest...he deserves it.

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Skan ( member #35812) posted at 11:27 PM on Friday, April 19th, 2013

Well, sometimes you gotta call it like you see it. And it sounds like she has.

Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012


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