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Notgwen (original poster new member #38838) posted at 12:47 PM on Tuesday, April 23rd, 2013
Anyone else feel like they are waiting for "the other shoe to drop?"
I find that I cannot be "happy" because I'm just waiting for the next thing to pop up and show me he is still lying.
Does this get better????
Me: 44
WH: 50
D day 03.20.13
Married 25 years.
4 children; 6 between us
HURTAGAIN1981 ( member #35178) posted at 1:15 PM on Tuesday, April 23rd, 2013
Hi, I know how you are feeling. I know my partner has been up to something and still is. I am now waiting for an opportunity to check his phone. I am 99% sure I will find damning evidence.
tushnurse ( member #21101) posted at 1:43 PM on Tuesday, April 23rd, 2013
Yes I think we all feel that way, esp at the beginning or if the Wayward remains in the fog. It takes a very long time for that trust to build up again, that is human nature. You don't want to allow yourself to be hurt that badly again.
(((( and strength ))))
Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16 at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.
HeartInADustpan ( member #38341) posted at 2:02 PM on Tuesday, April 23rd, 2013
Daily for the first few months. Now, I only get the occasional pang. It does get better, just very slowly.
(((hugs))
Hang in there. 
Just call me Heart. :)
Reconciling
"If you tell the truth, you don't have to remember anything" ~Mark Twain
Notgwen (original poster new member #38838) posted at 5:13 PM on Tuesday, April 23rd, 2013
And...he is replacing his cell phone today or tomorrow so my anxiety is back.
Wow, I love this!!!!
Me: 44
WH: 50
D day 03.20.13
Married 25 years.
4 children; 6 between us
Chefj9 ( member #38604) posted at 5:33 PM on Tuesday, April 23rd, 2013
Everyday, "you're not alone". I have nothing to base it on.... Just feel like that's the story of my life.
ME - BS 50, Him - WS 46 trying to "R"
4 DD's - blended 26,16, 15 and 13
Multi DDays the grand finale 5/13/2013
From here on out, I am only interested in what is real. Real people, real feelings, that's it, that's all I'm intere
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