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 strawblond30 (original poster member #6263) posted at 2:10 AM on Monday, April 29th, 2013

I just venting crying my eyes out. My house was destroyed in Illinois flood a week ago , so far no assistance financially , no flood insurance . Filed for Divorce should be over in June. House is mine. I hates it anyways we lived like hillbillies because he never up dated anything that ever broke . I have duck tape on my front door. I have to file bank rupt I have no option and I just feel really down because I know this is my life and I don't see it getting better. I'll always live in this house with a leaky roof and duck tape on the door. I just want to run away :-(

Divorced 2013 after several years of infidelity on both sides. Remarried July 2018 my new husband Is opposite from Ex. I can actually breath with out worrying what he is doing. Living my best life now .

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jrc1963 ( member #26531) posted at 2:13 AM on Monday, April 29th, 2013

(((Strawblond)))

Me: BSO - 56 Him: FWSO - 79 DS - 23 D-Day - 12-11-09, R - he finally came homeYour life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

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MovingUpward ( member #14866) posted at 2:36 AM on Monday, April 29th, 2013

(((hugs)))

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jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 2:57 AM on Monday, April 29th, 2013

(((strawblonde30)))

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DragnHeart ( member #32122) posted at 3:02 AM on Monday, April 29th, 2013

(((strawblond30)))

Me: BS 46 WH: 37 (BrokenHeart911)Four little dragons. Met 2006. Married 2008. Dday of LTPA with co worker October 19th 2010. Knew about EA with ow1 before that. Now up to PA #5. Serial fucking Cheater.

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sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 12:09 AM on Tuesday, April 30th, 2013

(((sb30)))

fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

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h0peless ( member #36697) posted at 12:55 AM on Tuesday, April 30th, 2013

(((strawblond30)))

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JustDone ( member #9742) posted at 1:16 AM on Tuesday, April 30th, 2013

(((Strawblond)))

Madhatter
Forgiveness is giving up the possibility of a better past.

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redvixen ( member #15259) posted at 12:48 AM on Wednesday, May 1st, 2013

(((((Strawblond))))

Me, BS Him WS early 40's at the start, cheated before and after cancer diagnosis.
Two A's, two OW's, online looking for sex partners, two false R's.
Threw him out in January 2009.
Divorce final March 30th, 2010

XWH died Dec. 2010

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Pentup ( member #20563) posted at 2:06 AM on Wednesday, May 1st, 2013

(((Straw blond)))

Praying some how this becomes a blessing in disguise and somehow the flood brings you a way to either repair your house properly, or a way out of it into better living conditions and more secure financially. Please keep us posted on how you are doing.

Me- BS
Him- FWS (I hope- F)

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