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blakesteele (original poster member #38044) posted at 12:25 AM on Friday, May 10th, 2013
Today as I left work I remembered how our M felt to us 3 years ago (past 2 years have been a bit off balance as we experienced the loss of a loved one..and the introduction of the A into our marriage has both my wife and I questioning what our pre-A M really and truly looked like).
I would call just as I left work and asked if I needed to pick up anything on the way home...
I guess this is just like everything else that you loose (health, wealth, etc.)...you have to lose it before you realize what you truly had.
sigh.
Not much of a post...just a melancholy mood I guess.
God be with us all.
[This message edited by blakesteele at 6:26 PM, May 9th (Thursday)]
ME: 42 BH, I don't PM female members
SHE: 38 EA
Married: 15 years
Together: 17 years
D/Day 9-10-12
NC: 10-25-12
NC: Broken early November 2012, OM not respond
2 girls; 7 and 10
Fear is payments on debts you have not yet incurred.
scarredforever ( member #23875) posted at 1:04 AM on Friday, May 10th, 2013
I understand your feelings of loss. It does get a little better with time.
"Forgiveness is the fragrance that the violet sheds on the heel that has crushed it."
Mark Twain
Me-BS 54
Him-WS 55
Together 35 years
6-5-06 Day of Reckoning
Familiarity breeds contempt.
jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 2:28 PM on Friday, May 10th, 2013
tushnurse ( member #21101) posted at 2:35 PM on Friday, May 10th, 2013
((( Blake )))
Through true R, you will regain a real sense of normalcy.
Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16 at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.
Skan ( member #35812) posted at 9:12 PM on Friday, May 10th, 2013
(((hugs))) It will get better for you, I promise. Which is, I know, small consolution when it's so sucky now.
Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
somanyyears ( member #26970) posted at 10:58 PM on Friday, May 10th, 2013
...you have to lose it before you realize what you truly had.
^^^^^^^^^^^^ this is so true.
sorry you are feeling crappy.
smy 
trust no other human- love only your pets. Reconciled I think! Me 77 Her 74 Married 52 yrs. 18 yr LTA with bff/lawyer. Little fucker died at 57.Brain tumour!
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