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Reconciliation :
A Picture of our R

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 AFrayedKnot (original poster member #36622) posted at 11:34 AM on Wednesday, June 5th, 2013

Our First Garden:

I Tilled It

She Planted It

I Water It

She Weeds It

We Harvest It

Our Whole Family Benefits from It

[This message edited by Chicho at 6:50 AM, June 5th (Wednesday)]

BS 48fWS 44 (SurprisinglyOkay)DsD DSA whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better."Knowing is half the battle"

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authenticnow ( member #16024) posted at 11:36 AM on Wednesday, June 5th, 2013

This post sums up everything.

It shows so wonderfully the hope that exists here.

Beautiful!

DS, you are forever in my heart. Thank you for sharing your beautiful spirit with me. I will always try to live by the example you have set. I love you and miss you every day and am sorry you had to go so soon, it just doesn't seem fair.

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brokensmile322 ( member #35758) posted at 12:09 PM on Wednesday, June 5th, 2013

LOVE, LOVE, LOVE this!!!!!

So much work to get it ready, so much work to keep it going, so much work to reap the benefits! Just like R...

AWE-some!!!

Thanks for sharing Chico! You and broevil should be so proud!

Me BS 42 Him WS 44
OW Coworker DDay April 7, 2012
EA on a slippery slope...

When we are no longer able to change a situation, we are challenged to change ourselves. ~Viktor Frankl

"When you are happy, you can forgive a great deal."

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RockyMtn ( member #37043) posted at 12:23 PM on Wednesday, June 5th, 2013

Me, BS, 30s
Him, WS, 30s, Steppenwolf
Kids: Yep
D-Day 1: September 2011, 6 week EA
D-Day 2: January 2013, discovered EA was a PA; there was another PA in 2010. All TT.
Goal = serenity.

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LA44 ( member #38384) posted at 12:46 PM on Wednesday, June 5th, 2013

Nicer Chicho! Thanks for sharing.

Me: 44
He: 47 WH
Married: 15 years
D Day: December 2012
Affair: Fall 2009 - Dec. 2011
R is not linear

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Knowing ( member #37044) posted at 12:58 PM on Wednesday, June 5th, 2013

Congrats!

(I haven't touched my garden in 3 years, but that's another story)

BW, R last 4 years of marriage out of 15... FINALLY, HAPPILY DIVORCING!

We are in R.

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Tred ( member #34086) posted at 2:51 PM on Wednesday, June 5th, 2013

Awesome! Make sure you plant some basil between the tomatoes - it's an excellent companion plant. Guess you don't have a deer problem up there?

Married: 27 years (14 @JFO) D-Day: 11/09/11"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)

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sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 4:10 PM on Wednesday, June 5th, 2013

Very nice.

fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

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wert ( member #34478) posted at 4:13 PM on Wednesday, June 5th, 2013

Very nice.

I would recommend Giant Maragold's around the tomatoes as well, natural insect repellent.

Good for you guys.

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DixieD ( member #33457) posted at 4:19 PM on Wednesday, June 5th, 2013

This is wonderful

Growing forward

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tired girl ( member #28053) posted at 4:35 PM on Wednesday, June 5th, 2013

Really like this!

Me 47 Him 47 Hardlessons
DS 27,25,23
D Day's becoming less important as time moves on.
"No one can make you feel inferior without your consent." Eleanor Roosevelt
My bad for trying to locate remorse on your morality map. OITNB

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happierdays ( member #38537) posted at 6:09 PM on Wednesday, June 5th, 2013

Your picture gives me hope for a brighter future.

Me - 40 something
WH - 40 something
Dday - Oct 7, 2012
Dday 2 - June 4, 2013
Married - 12 years
2 DD

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RoadtoPeace ( new member #39141) posted at 6:53 PM on Wednesday, June 5th, 2013

Just what I needed to see. A hopeful future that both people are working towards together. Thanks!

me - BS
him - WH
Married 5 1/2 years
Dday#1 - 10/2009
Dday#2 - 3/2013
Status - He wants R, I am not sure I can get on that ride again

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knightsbff ( member #36853) posted at 9:54 PM on Wednesday, June 5th, 2013

Like!

fWW 40s, BH 40s
D-day 27 Aug 2012. Kids 25, 17, 13. 2 dogs.

I edit often to fix stuff ☺️

Profoundly grateful Every. Single. Day. that I am blessed with an H with strength, integrity, and compassion, and that he decided to try.

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Joanh ( member #39146) posted at 10:36 PM on Wednesday, June 5th, 2013

Beautiful. We have done the same and find it to be a symbol of growth. It was done together and it will be nutured together. Thank you for sharing 

BH 39
WW 43
D day November 9, 2012
3 children 22, 8, 6
Just....

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brokensunflower ( member #38674) posted at 10:37 PM on Wednesday, June 5th, 2013

love this

me 34
him 34
7 wonderful kids 14 yrs 10 yrs 7 yrs 6 yrs and 4 yrs 2yr ..and new baby
married 15years together for 12

my give a damn is busted

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5454real ( member #37455) posted at 10:38 PM on Wednesday, June 5th, 2013

Awesome

BH 58, WW 49
DS 31(Mine),SD 29,SS 28(Hers),DS 16 Ours, DGS 11, DGD 8, DGS 3
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 13yrs
"I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone."
― Sophocle

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LosferWords ( member #30369) posted at 10:41 PM on Wednesday, June 5th, 2013

I really like this post, and all of the positive implications tied into it. Thanks for sharing this.

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MissD ( member #39377) posted at 11:29 PM on Wednesday, June 5th, 2013

Thanks for sharing, it's lovely!

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TarheelMom ( member #35726) posted at 2:31 AM on Thursday, June 6th, 2013

I love this! :)

Me: BW

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