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Or "Wow, I sure can pick em".

Went out on a first meetup with a guy from OLD on Sunday. Was in a park with his dog. Seemed all so very normal.

We chatted for about an hour before it started to get... weird. He started to talk about our two incomes combined, and moving in together in a new city. I'm thinking to myself that this seems a bit fast, but he could just be making conversation.

We part after two hours with the idea that we might meet up again in a few days for dinner.

Then they start. The texts. They cover everything from future kids/money/housing/combining pets etc. I text a girlfriend and tell her I'm getting really weirded out.

I don't respond to his texts and had in fact told him that I was busy all day/night Monday. He tries calling me around 7:30 or so and then gets extremely upset that I don't answer.

His words are "are you married" "are you playing me" "why aren't you responding to me". I remind him that I was busy and had told him as much. He loses it. "That's not what couples do, they talk about these things, you're still dating aren't you? I can smell the bullshit a mile away"

At this point in time I completely stop responding at all as he is clearly off his rocker.

His final text to me is "I want nothing to do with you anymore, good luck in life with your bullshit". Um, ok.

So in a span of about 24 hours, I went from single, to ready to move in and start a life/family to a major breakup and single again.

Oy.

Be glad your rid of this one...NEXT!....

My screen name here came to mind as this guy was a male Bunny Boiler. Not too good for this rabbit. :)

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Ho.lee. crap!

Now this guy is going around telling everyone women are just game players.

O.M.G!!!!! PSYCHO!!!!

Please don't cry yourself to sleep tonight over losing that winner!

"Sometimes the knight in shining armor is really a loser in tin foil!!!" TRUE QUOTE! (Especially in OLD)

"Wow, I sure can pick em".

Rabbit, I'm willing to bet it didn't say anything on his OLD profile about him being a psychotic fuckwit, so this doesn't show anything wrong with your picker.

However, if you were to go on a second date, I might have to retract that statement.

That's really quite funny. I could take confidence lessons from this guy

Just wait. You'll keep hearing from him.

I had a few who did this, not within a single date, but over the course of 2-3 weeks usually, they were ready to move in.

There are two who I just heard from this week (shut them both down immediately...have started telling them I'm seeing someone else so they will GO AWAY ) and one who, for six months, would facebook me once a month like clockwork. I think he had a reminder set up on his calendar or something. I still half expect to hear from him again, and he must be stalking my LinkedIn, because he gets suggested as a connection all. the. time. even though we don't have common connections.

Psycho.

I had one of those too. Very soon after initial contact he was sending me all these texts about how he was going to take care of me. Oh boy, last thing I need right now is somebody taking care of me, thank you very much.

I did not respond, pretended to be busy, asked him not to contact me anymore.

He would be quiet for a few days, then another text. Told me he wanted to take me on a trip to Mexico with his RV. No , thank you.

So, finally, while I was out with my girlfriends he broke up with me via text.

He made our night, oh, the laughs we got out of this one...

Bullet dodged. I'm certain he is telling everyone what an evil manipulator I am.

Seriously we knew each other TWO hours. One Hundred Twenty minutes. That's it.

There will be no second date. I had thought about sending a text back but wrote it out and promptly deleted it. What a fucking nutjob.

I've actually had this happen several times. I must attract the crazy somehow. Or maybe its just guys my age! (I'm 50). They all seem so......needy. And then they get ANGRY when I don't answer all their text immediately. Its SO WEIRD.

I saw one guy for about a month...then one day he said "You're acting weird...what's going on...what are you doing...are you seeing someone?", etc. It came out of nowhere.

I gave up. I never found anything BUT weirdness on OLD, sadly. I saw your other thread on this topic. I am glad to say, though, that despite his MANY messages to me, I never did respond to Mr. Gunsboobs4ever. I had a feeling we might not "click".