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cuppacoffee (original poster member #39313) posted at 8:33 PM on Thursday, June 13th, 2013
I think we are finally here.
I am emotionally and physically drained. I had some very extremely stressful events.
But after all of the bullshit has been cleared out and our hearts were emptied we both realized our brokenness. We are moving forward. Together.
I'm like a vacuum bag
That holds all that old dirt
Remember that time we said we'd be together forever?
Don't hate me, don't regret me, don't ever forget me
Wherever you go, whatever you do, don't say I never loved you
Skan ( member #35812) posted at 9:48 PM on Thursday, June 13th, 2013
(((hugs))) I hope that from this point on, you two get better and better.
Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
lilflower1000 ( member #36634) posted at 10:03 PM on Thursday, June 13th, 2013
Glad you are working through it together. ((hugs))
lilflower1000
Me: 51 BS
Married 19 years
Dday1: 8/1/2012 ( followed by multiple Ddays)
D-day2( AP#2):Easter-April 12 , 2020
4kids(18,16, 13, 8) + 2 grown Step kids I love like my own
libertyrocks ( member #38924) posted at 5:59 PM on Friday, June 14th, 2013
Good. It's a long, hard journey.
Me-37 Ws-37
2 kids
Dday Nov 2012, TT for a year.
Reconciling for the third time in 4 years.
Pudding ( member #37168) posted at 6:02 PM on Friday, June 14th, 2013
Good luck and well done. It is tough. Keep in there. You will have ups and downs, but if you are both committed to the R and work on it together, when you have a difficult day (and there will be many, if you are like the rest of us) remember how good you feel now, remember that it can get better and tune yourself back to the good days and what made them good. that will help you get through the bad times.
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