....I have to wonder if hell is searching for my POS ex!!
Oh, the antics!!
He was here for a week last week. He forgot to leave me a check but swore he mailed it on Tuesday. It came today and is postmarked Friday. Why lie?? It was late even if he mailed it on Tuesday, why lie.
But I know, I'm lucky to get it at all. But living paycheck to paycheck, when it's late, I have to decided which mortgage not to pay and I hate that!
Please, please let me sell this house!!!!!
Anyway a few choice tidbits my kids came home with.....
dad: "why am I made out to be the bad guy?"
me: jaw drop
Son's comment to me: "It's OK mom....we know what happened. We were there."
dad: "why can't your mother and I be friends, go out to dinner? We had so many good times together."
Me: jaw drop
Son's comment to me: "It's OK mom....we know what happened. We were there."
dad: "why is your mother having money problems? It's been 6 years!"
me: jaw drop
Uhm... because I'm still in the same house paying 3 mortgages and it hasn't sold in 2 1/2 years it's been on the market.
Uhm....because right before you left we moved to the country where there are no high paying jobs and I wasted 15 years of my life building the business you and OW ran into the ground and had to start a new career from scratch.
Uhm....because the alimony only lasted for 4 years.
Uhm...because I have two teenagers and an aging mother that I'm fully responsible for.
Hindsite: I was a bad planner and should have moved, just left him with the house, the month after he left.
But I also know I was a zombie for those first couple of years. But to my credit, I did
go back to school and now have a decent job....if I can just get out from under this house.
I don't want to blame. Hard not to...But once this house sells things will get so much easier.....
Just venting.
BS(me)45 now 48, WH (POS)45 now 48
M 24trs, DD14, DS15
POS OW - then 24, now doesn't matter
D-day 1/2/07, Divorced 11/13/08
“Live without pretending, Love without depending, Listen without defending, Speak without offending."
