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I have come to expect that when shit hits the fan it's going to be a total shit storm!  Today sucks...

Warning. TMI:

#1.  Wh wanted sex last night.  Fine.  Condom being used, comes off as he finishes. FML. Wh has been talking for months about having another child.   I haven't felt ready or of its even what I want.  Now it I might have no choice.

#2.  Check bank account. Wh is shorted on his pay. Not what we needed this week!!!

#3. Wh gets notice at work that the company is closing so many locations across the province. Dont know if his is on the chopping block or not. Seriously!?!

#4.  Cell company settled with me on the account so we could transfer IL's phones off our plan.  I was told it would bring us "up to date".  Apparently not... Got notice that our service would be suspended unless it's all paid...now. (three months worth that weren't included in settlement).  Was told "sorry the other person didn't tell you but to bad need payment today".  Owell.  I'll be back in a few months. Maybe lol

#5.  Went to post this and my phone shut off...then turned back on. iPhone's are funny that way...

On the bright side it's a beautiful sunny day.  I'm going to go work in the garden while the kids play.

Yay for beautiful sunny day!!!!

Well I have been looking at the "bright" side.

Another baby. Not totally horrible. Don't look forward to nine months of throwing up but hey, I lost 50lbs the first time, 20lbs the second. Weight loss here I come. I also had a visit to my OB/GYN about some issues and was given the all clear...

Lack of pay. Typical! Cash office person isn't the brightest light bulb! But I accounted for being short this week due to a extra insurance payment. So, really...it's not so bad. Just hope they put the missed day on his next pay.

Wh has been looking at changing jobs and even if his place closes he is still high enough thy he can move to another location.

Cells. Owell I have given up hope that we will ever get ahead on this one...rent and hydro are just more

Important.

So yes. It's a nice sunny day.

Is it likely that one can get pregnant at the end of their period?

I can see myself being stressed out enough about being pregnant that I skip my next period...

And with dd we not only used condoms but I was on Bc and we were using other contraceptives when we got pregnant. Ugh!

(((DH))))

Sounds like a lot. Remember though everything happens for a reason.

Not very likely to get pregnant at the end of a period, IF your cycles are reliable. If they are not every so many days, then all bets are off. I was like you when it came time to get pregnant. We said ok lets try next month, it rolled around, and we had unprotected sex 1 time....Yup pregnant, second time around we agreed that we would try, unprotected sex 2 times that month, yup kiddo number two.

If you aren't ready to get preggers get yourself some spermacide foam, for the yikes moments like last night.

Try not to stress over it though. If it happens it was meant to be.

I was just taken back by everything all happening this morning (and last night).

I figure something will come out of all the stress. Like wh says, never a dull moment.

We used spermacide when dd was

conceived.

There's just to many issues surrounding having a baby... If its done it's done but man is it goin to be an interesting nine months...

I can see myself being stressed out enough about being pregnant that I skip my next period...

As I understand it, stress delays ovulation, not your period. So if you have already ovulated, you probably aren't pregnant and all the stress in the world won't keep that period from coming on time. If you haven't ovulated, then stressing out might delay ovulation and subsequently delay your period.

I have never been "normal" in that department. Doc wasn't even sure I could get prego to begin with. Proved him wrong twice lol.

I also broke a tooth ugh! When I had braces the two top back molars developed cavities under the metal. They couldn't see the cavity even though I complained that both hurt.

So braces came off, both back molars got fillings.

Since then the fillings have come out twice. This last time so did part of the tooth. Ugh!

It doesn't hurt which is good but my dentist is on holidays and the other guy I used to go to is doctor jeckle (sp?) so I'll just chew on the other side for now. That and it usually takes a ton of gas to get me calm enough to do work on my teeth. (36 year old scaredy cat here).

On top, my parents arrived to tell me some not so good news about extended family attempting to take over my aunts property...provincial police have been involved since there was a theft from the property already. Geez.

Well today has sucked. But that's what I get for staying in my pj's all day lol.

Tomorrow will be a better day I'm sure. I plan on getting dressed

((((hugs))))

Thanks Hugs are always welcome.

((Dragn)) I'd be sucking on a wine bottle by now if I had that kind of day...

You're tougher than I am!

Sad thing is my mom just gave me a bottle of her Apple wine and I can't touch it until I know I'm not prego. Waaaaaaaaaa.

Wine is fine until you know you are pregnant. The little bunch of cells exist on their own nutrient supply up to about 30 days. That's why so many women have normal babies after a night of drunken sex.

So you should be good to go.