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Alyssamd24 (original poster member #39005) posted at 3:13 AM on Sunday, August 25th, 2013
I went to talk to my BH tonight and he asked me to move back home!! I am so excited and happy he has finally done it, and am grateful he is willing to let me back in so we can work on R.
I know it's going to be hard, especially at first but am optimistic that we can make it work!
Sometimes the worst thing that happens to you.....the thing you think you can't survive....its the thing that makes you better than you used to be.
boontje ( member #33247) posted at 3:21 AM on Sunday, August 25th, 2013
This is awesome news. I know you have been waiting for a long time for this.
Me: BS
Dday: June 2011
Courage is not having the strength to go on; it is going on when you don't have the strength.
--Theodore Roosevelt
krazy8516 ( member #40076) posted at 3:30 AM on Sunday, August 25th, 2013
me: BW, 30
him: WH, 25
us: edging closer to R every day
married 2y, together 2.5y
1 beautiful daughter, 23m
"Someday soon, I'm going to put my life together; Win or lose, I'm starting over again."
ThoughtIKnewYa ( member #18449) posted at 3:42 AM on Sunday, August 25th, 2013
Good luck to you both!
stupidgurl ( member #36763) posted at 5:18 AM on Sunday, August 25th, 2013
That is great news, I am rooting for you two!
me WW/BW-34
him BH/WH- 34
2002/3 (him) EA
PA(me)-Nov 2007
Tog. 16 yrs, Marr. 15 and counting!
Still R'd
Mrs Panda ( member #27303) posted at 6:33 AM on Sunday, August 25th, 2013
Great !!! 
Me-48 FWW Him 51BH
M 20 years,. Fully Reconciled ❤️.
DDay#1 Nov 2008
DDay#2 Aug 2009 (Prior A from 2001)
"Those who believe in telekinetics, raise my hand." -Kurt Vonnegut
AFrayedKnot ( member #36622) posted at 11:34 AM on Sunday, August 25th, 2013
BS 48fWS 44 (SurprisinglyOkay)DsD DSA whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better."Knowing is half the battle"
SurprisinglyOkay ( member #36684) posted at 12:21 PM on Sunday, August 25th, 2013
Awesome!!
FWS me 38 (recovering addict)
BS him 41 AFrayedKnot
Together 10 years
2 children
"Your secrets keep you sick"
authenticnow ( member #16024) posted at 2:54 PM on Sunday, August 25th, 2013
DS, you are forever in my heart. Thank you for sharing your beautiful spirit with me. I will always try to live by the example you have set. I love you and miss you every day and am sorry you had to go so soon, it just doesn't seem fair.
EmotionalFool ( member #37362) posted at 3:08 PM on Sunday, August 25th, 2013
WW: 28 (ME)
BH: 28 (SI profile: CrappyLife)
D-Day- 15/10/12
wildbananas ( member #10552) posted at 4:26 PM on Sunday, August 25th, 2013
Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan
20WrongsVs1 ( member #39000) posted at 4:28 PM on Sunday, August 25th, 2013
fWW: 42
BH: 52
DDay: April 21, 2013
Sweet DS & fierce DD, under 10
Former motto: "Fake it till ya make it." Now: "You can't win if you don't play."
3xloser ( member #34735) posted at 6:00 PM on Sunday, August 25th, 2013
Good for both of you!! Now don't screw up.
Alyssamd24 (original poster member #39005) posted at 10:14 PM on Sunday, August 25th, 2013
Thank you everyone.
Lol, I won't screw up this time!! I will show my BH he made the right choice by letting me move back in
Sometimes the worst thing that happens to you.....the thing you think you can't survive....its the thing that makes you better than you used to be.
nuance ( member #28793) posted at 10:56 PM on Sunday, August 25th, 2013
Don't leave once you're there.
Dday May 2000. R'ed.
People suck.
SandAway ( member #37775) posted at 12:55 AM on Monday, August 26th, 2013
This is great!
Wishing you both the best ~
fWW
BH Tred
M 19yrs
DDay Nov. 2011
Guns don't kill people; Affairs kill people
Darkness Falls ( member #27879) posted at 1:38 AM on Monday, August 26th, 2013
Yes, wishing the both of you the best. Great news.
Married -> I cheated -> We divorced -> We remarried -> Had two kids -> Now we’re miserable again
Staying together for the kids
D-day 2010
heforgotme ( member #38391) posted at 3:47 PM on Monday, August 26th, 2013
Omgosh! I was so excited to see this!
D-Day 11/15/12
5 month PA
Married 20 years, 3 kids
All good is hard. All evil is easy. Dying, losing, cheating, and mediocrity is easy. Stay away from easy.
- Scott Alexander
It was the day I thought I'd never get through - Daughtry
TimeToManUp ( member #37538) posted at 4:22 PM on Monday, August 26th, 2013
I know we're worth it.
WH/BH (Me-36) EA 11/11-12/11
BW/WW (tattoodchinadoll-34) EA early 2016, PA 8/16-9/16, Continued to 12/16 after discovery.
Together nearly 20 years, married for 14.
Three daughters, 12, 8 and 5.
TxsT ( member #39996) posted at 4:38 PM on Monday, August 26th, 2013
This is a wonderful step. I really feel you can"t R properly, or at all, without living together. Together makes it real again. I hope the move went well.
T
Me: BS 50
Hubby: WH 53
Together: 32 years
Married: 25 years 09/10/2013
2 boys: 23&21
Dday: 09/11/2012
A length: 4+ years (yes years)
status: Ongoing Reconciliation :o)
Through thick and thin we will survive but he gets only one shot at it!
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